The cheating crowd said frankly: Adding friends to facilitate communication is false, but developing relationships is true

Text: Flower blooming tide

I miss you like a flower, and miss you like a tide

Who has never envied the love of the wind, the snow and the moon, those words of sweet words like honey, bright oaths Open the darkness and soothe my eternally dark heart.

Everything in love is so beautiful and casual. When I am with my favorite person, what I see is a good prospect of future life. However, the end of love is never just romance and beauty, but Returning to life, firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Always pay attention to gradual and orderly progress, such as love and extramarital affairs.

Extramarital affairs, as a variable in marriage, carries the things that originally existed in marriage, such as joy, romance, excitement, and freshness. At the same time, it also derives many different feelings: complexity, anxiety and fear.

After all, in an abnormal relationship, no one can be as quiet as usual.

There is always a gradual process in the development of extramarital affairs, and all of this starts with adding friends.

The cheating crowd confessed: Adding friends, facilitating communication is false, and facilitating the development of relationships is true

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As Ms. Wang who has experienced multiple cheatings, for her, this is the matter. Have a great say.

Ms. Wang said that before her first derailment, her intention was not to do something to be sorry for the family. However, there is nothing absolute. By chance, she added that man’s friend, but she did not expect this to happen. It was the beginning of Ms. Wang's decline. Ms. Wang met him at a colleague's dinner, and they were very close to each other, because Ms. Wang had a special temperament since she was a child, and she liked to read books.Naturally, the man expressed his admiration on the spot.

It just so happened that Ms. Wang's marital status during that time was not very good, and she was not uncomfortable to accept the kindness of strangers.

Since he became one of his friends, he began to chat with himself day and night. After all, as a married person, Ms. Wang has a clear idea of ​​him, but Ms. Wang sees through If there is no point broken, everything will go with him.

Perhaps in this attitude that you take the initiative and I will not refuse, Ms. Wang gradually had an unclear relationship with him, until later, the two eventually developed a relationship between underground lovers.

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Mr. Zhang, who has a similar experience, also has a similar experience.

In middle age, the burden of family and his wife’s incomprehension caused Mr. Zhang not to want to escape all the time. By chance, he met a woman three years younger than him. What’s interesting is that that woman is also experiencing A frustrated marriage.

Two frustrated people happen to collide together, and they can always produce some different sparks.

I can’t remember who took the initiative to mention it. Anyway, since the two of them have added friends to each other in the name of being a friend to communicate with each other easily, but since adding friends, the two of them are not chatting all the time. At the beginning, the two of them The topics between them were normal, but as we chatted, there were some fundamental changes.

For each other's feelings, the two already knew well, and the purpose of adding friends was also obvious.

So, this unknown experience of extramarital affairs, in the end, starts with adding friends and ends with mutual comfort.

Extramarital affairs, in the final analysis, is also a kind of human emotion. It is just the love for one person about to disappear, transferred to another person, but since it is a transfer, there will be a process, and The beginning of this process,Just start by adding friends.

How many people have added another person’s friends under the pretext of facilitating communication. However, in fact, communication is only one aspect. The real purpose is to facilitate the development of relationships.

Before every extramarital affair begins, there will be a process of mutual temptation, and adding friends happens to provide them with a contract, which is equivalent to building a bridge.

However, the consequences of extramarital affairs are undoubtedly huge, and it may even cause you to be displaced in the future. Therefore, you need to think twice and act accordingly.

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