Love uncle introduction:
What do you think of women who do not go to work after marriage? Although many men say: "It doesn't matter if you don't go to work, I will support you", but as the days go by, conflicts will increase. Many men are just lip-synching. After their wives really don't go to work, men may feel uncomfortable in their hearts.
After getting married, the woman does not go to work, and she does not live a comfortable life. Not going to work is really unfriendly to women. Most women who do not go to work after marriage will lose these four things!
lost freedom
Women may feel very distressed when they go to work, especially in winter when they need to get up early to go to work. Many women think, "If you can not go to work, you don’t need to wake up early." Bed". Many women have indeed embarked on the road of "not going to work" after marriage. Many women think that this will give them freedom and make it easier to take care of their families.
Not going to work is often the beginning of losing freedom. Although you don’t need to "check in" when you don’t go to work, you don’t need to get up early and return late. It seems that time is much more free, but in fact, you lose your freedom, the freedom of mind and body.
Why not go to work and also have no freedom? Because women who don’t go to work also have a lot of things to do, and they also have ties and constraints. Women who don't go to work have to deal with all kinds of things in the family, including bringing children, cleaning, washing clothes and cooking. Not going to work may seem like there are not so many rules and regulations, but in fact, you will be entangled in various trivial matters of life.
Disabled
People are like this. If you don’t go to work for a week, you will feel very comfortable and feel relaxed physically and mentally. If you go to work for a month, you will feel that rest is quite boring, this Sometimes you miss the days at work a little bit; you don’t go to work for a year or more,You will be particularly eager to go to work, or just don't want to go to work at all. These are actually two extremes, but you will not have true freedom without going to work.
When a woman does not go to work after getting married, although she can give her children more company and pay more for the family, she also has to pay a high price. The price is the loss of ability. You may have good abilities in all aspects before marriage, and you are also very good at work, but if you don’t go to work for a year, two or even years, your abilities will degenerate, especially in those highly professional jobs. If you don't go to work, you will lose this ability.
lost contacts
Work is actually a process of accumulating contacts. A woman can also establish her own contacts at work. As long as you work hard and learn to behave, you will have it too. Some of my own small relationships. Once a woman enters a marriage and chooses a day when she does not go to work, in fact, you say goodbye to the outside world.
Women seem to get something if they don't go to work, but they also lose a lot. You will lose a lot of contacts, and your awareness is not as high as when you work. A woman who loses contacts actually loses a lot of opportunities, and if you want to establish these relationships in the future, you will need to spend more time and energy.
loses her charm
A woman is actually very attractive when she works hard, because she is using her actions to prove her worth. She will be more confident because of her abilities, her personality will be more cheerful, and her attitude towards life will be more positive.
And a woman who doesn't go to work is actually the beginning of losing her charm. When women go to work, they will pay more attention to their own image, dress up, and learn, but many women ignore this when they are not at work. In the end, a working woman becomes a "housewife without an image". This is true. It is a kind of sadness.
My uncle’s conclusion:
The full-time wife’s sorrow: You give up not just work,And dignity! A woman may seem comfortable not to go to work after marriage, but this comfort is often the fastest way to "kill" a person. You think you can have freedom without going to work. You think you will be more comfortable when you don’t go to work. You think you don’t have to deal with the complicated relationships in your work if you don’t go to work. You have to understand that you will lose more if you don't go to work, and there is no way to make up for the things you lose.
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