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Hello everyone, I am a girl in plain clothes. Many people have asked me how I became more confident from inferiority complex. As a young lady who is about to run for three, share my experience!
Once upon a time, I was a timid and inferior girl. She was beautiful but dressed casually; for the sake of writing dreams, but did not enter the university of choice, failed the college entrance examination, failed the postgraduate entrance examination, and repeated experiences are destroying my self-confidence.
Until I graduated in 18, I started working for the first time, but it didn't go well. I almost lost myself in the face of cruel social pressure.
Yes, I don't have a very good family background, and I don't have a high degree of education. I just have an ordinary background, ordinary education, and good looks and talents.
At this moment, I seem to have forgotten that when I was in high school, I used to insist on writing for 15 years. I have won many awards in the field of paper media. At this moment, I seem to have forgotten my proud moments and the light of success.
I like to read and write. I also have my own advantages. However, for various reasons, I was ridiculed and beaten and I almost lost myself.
Until I met the Internet and the official account, I saw a lot of ordinary-looking girls who have millions of fans and ordinary backgrounds, but they spelled out their own world.
Yeah, why don't I believe in myself? Reflecting on these days, the reason why the pace of progress has been so slow is that in the crowd, too much attention to others and neglect of self.
I am still young, I should believe in myself, and I am so beautiful, I can use my beauty and talent advantages to give full play to my expertise.
In the past two decades, it was precisely because of over-sensitivity and low self-esteem that destroyed everything that should belong to me. I think if you are more confident, maybe life will look different.
From inferiority complex to self-confidence, I spent more than a year changing myself. Learn photography, learn makeup, learn how to wear, pick up your own specialties again,Reading and writing, and with the help of the Internet, amplify your own advantages and create your personal IP with all your heart. Today, I have also accumulated my fans on the Internet platform, and have become my true self again.
If you are also a girl with inferiority complex, I would like to give you some suggestions——
1. Do what you are good at, and turn your advantage into a career, with the help of external forces to infinitely enlarge. I know a few video bloggers who output content on the self-media platform and show the audience their writing advantages, appearance, and spoken English. They have achieved good results.
2. Keep reading some growth, literature, and inspirational books. I remember one time after listening to teacher Chen Guo’s speech, I felt something in my body was awakened. Yes, no matter what happened, just be a woman. You should stay confident!
3. Keep learning new skills, admit your imperfections, and work hard in silence. I am 27 years old this year. A woman at this age has gradually realized that you don’t need to be affirmed by others to believe in yourself, but believe that you are great, so you will work silently for your goals. As long as the direction is right, you will slowly reach destination.
4. Being single is not scary. Try to improve yourself and love will come. As an older single young woman in the eyes of others, she is often asked by friends, why not go to a relationship, but in the end I found that a low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single. It's not that I haven't thought about it, but I went around all the way and didn't meet the right one, so I insisted on being myself. I firmly believe that when I become good enough, I will meet a better one. I am willing to work hard and wait for the right person to appear.
I remember someone asked Dong Mingzhu, what do you think is the most important thing for a woman, Dong Mingzhu said: It is not to marry a rich family, to have a good marriage, and it is not to have a good native family, but to engrave Confidence in the bones. Deeply agree. Just imagine, if you don’t believe in yourself, how can others believe in you?
Well, as an old aunt born in the 90s, I am talking so much. I hope it will be helpful to you. New Year's Day, Happy New Year, and a good year of the Ox. Let’s make a fortune together! ! !
About the author:
Su Yi girl,Post-90s self-media person, founder of [Suyi Culture Studio], loves writing and photography, special author of "Kava Wecha", columnist of rich book, published works in major online newspapers, focusing on writing realization and copywriting training . Public number: Suyi's literary arena. I can get free submission resources and writing materials by private message.
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