have had similar experiences, that is, when they talk to others, their children are always around, and sometimes they come to interrupt the chat on purpose. In this regard, some parents will end the chat, and some will teach their children " adults speak children don't interrupt ", and the children cry aggrieved after hearing this, which caused many parents a headache. So, what should I do if my child loves to interrupt? How can I get rid of the child’s interruption?
A few days ago, Miao Miao took the children to a friend’s house. Since he hadn’t seen each other for a long time, he had a very happy conversation.
But in the process of chatting, the child will talk about this and that.
"Mom, I want to eat snacks"
"Mom, what are you talking about?"
"Mom, can you come and help me make this toy."
Finally, Miao Miao couldn't bear it, so he directly scolded the child. , The child slowly calmed down.
Regarding the above situation, I believe many parents have encountered it. It is not enough for adults to chat for a long time. not only disturbs the communication between adults, but also makes others feel that the child is impolite, which makes the parents very embarrassed.
Why do children like to interrupt?
In fact, there is a behavioral motivation behind every child who loves to interrupt. Generally speaking, "interrupting" is a common occurrence for children of a certain age. Therefore, parents should not rush to blame their children, first see why the children interrupt your conversation.
1, instinctive behavior
When many children interrupt, they just treat this behavior as a daily conversation. They may just be more interested in the topic the adults are talking to now, or suddenly remember something to tell their parents.
2. Speaking of what the child is interested in.
When the child sees or hears the parent talking about something that interests him, he can’t help but want to speak his own point of view, and the child does not know where it should be What to say or not to say will often disrupt the conversation between parents.
3. I am eager to express my own opinions.
What is discussed between adults. If children have heard of it or have a little understanding, they will resonate, and then they want to express themselves and express their opinions, and I hope my performance can be recognized and affirmed by my parents.
4. The child does not realize that it is impolite to interrupt.
If the parent has the habit of interrupting, the child will also learn. This effect is not deliberate, but it is profound. In addition, parents' lack of restraint on children's behavioral expressions will also prevent children from realizing that it is impolite to interrupt. Above
is the reason why children love to interrupt. Therefore, parents should not let this behavior of their children be left unchecked, but should also pay attention to the handling methods.
So, what should I do if the child loves to interrupt, and how to get rid of the problem of the child interrupting? The following are the suggestions and methods of the wise lighthouse parenting tutor, let us take a look.
1. How to get rid of the child's interruption problem: We can agree to an expression code
with the child. We have to tell the child that it is impolite to interrupt others at will. But if the child insists on speaking, we can agree on an expression code with the child at this time.
, for example, raise your hand to indicate that you want to speak. The existence of the secret sign, on the one hand, is to let children know that parents understand his mood; on the other hand, it can also cultivate the good habit of children to learn to wait.
2. How to get rid of the problem of children's interruption: give children room for expression
In fact, many children love to interrupt, because their parents do not communicate effectively with their children in daily life, so that children do not know how to express themselves correctly idea.
Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more in their daily lives and encourage them to express their emotions correctly. This way the child will not express his thoughts by interrupting.
3. How to get rid of the child's interruption problem: Parents lead by example
Many of the children's behaviors come from imitating parents. Some parents may have their own interruption problems in their lives, but blindly ask their children to correct them. Is hard to playEffective.
Therefore, parents should lead by example and pay attention to politeness when communicating with others. Children can naturally get rid of the bad habit of interrupting through observation.
4. How to get rid of the child’s interruption: positive reinforcement, encourage waiting for
. When the child really has an opinion to express, we can tell the child, baby, if you want to express your opinion, we can wait for others to finish talking. All right.
After we finish speaking, parents remember to allow time for their children, listen carefully, and affirm their children's behavior to wait before speaking, and positively strengthen their children's speaking etiquette.
What should I do if children like to interrupt? In the process of children's growth, there will always be problems of one kind or another. We should not wear adult colored glasses to belittle these behaviors of children, but use love and patience to help children correct them step by step.
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