Article丨Flynn’s mommy
sent me a private message, worriedly saying that her child is three years old and still can’t speak, and his cousin, who is two months younger than him, can clearly express his needs. Yes, she is worried that her child has "autism."
This parent's concern is not unreasonable. Under normal circumstances, children can imitate adults to speak when they are over one year old, they can express their own needs at around two years old, and cannot speak at three years old. This requires attention.
and child autism is also called child autism , mainly refers to the child is introverted and lonely, unwilling to socialize and communicate with others, most of the children are baby boys, symptoms may occur before the age of three.
is abnormal in speech in autism, and the performance is more obvious. The average child can learn simple words at about one year old, while the child with autism cannot speak at two or three years old. Some children of
are not completely unable to speak, but constantly repeat the monotonous words of adults. The use of pronouns is reversed and confused, and they often use "you" or "he" instead of himself.
This is an abnormality that children with autism will show in terms of language. In addition, there are four other aspects of performance.
On social aspect , some children go to kindergarten, no matter they are in or out of class, they like to walk around in the kindergarten and ignore the call of the teacher.
In terms of interest , children with autism may only like to play a game or activity. For example, he likes to play cards, he always plays cards, never chess.
Behavior is relatively dull, and may repeat a certain action monotonously, such as waving, jumping, spinning, and picking nostrils. Or stubbornly shifting the shoes around and wearing them, telling him to change back to the correct way of wearing, crying constantly.
intellectually, , will also behave abnormally. Seventy percent of children with autism and lag behind normal children. But there are also 10% of children whose intelligence is better than ordinary children. Especially in art and music.
In terms of , some people are extremely afraid of certain sounds, such as hearing the sound of firecrackers and howling at night when they hear the cat crying.
Seeing the above behaviors of autism, perhaps parents are very nervous, and children will have more or less behaviors.
But not as long as it has the above performance, it is autism.
For example, if the child only has autism in language, it can be analyzed in combination with other factors. There are four reasons why a three-year-old child can’t speak:
1. Lack of language environment. Some parents think that the child is still young and does not understand, so they will not talk to the child.
2. The language environment is complex and family members speak different languages or dialects. The child wants to learn to speak but is at a loss as to which language to learn.
3. The child’s hearing problems, cannot hear the pronunciation, cannot imitate the speech, and children with congenital deafness are likely to become dumb.
Fourth, the child's intelligence is problematic.
Therefore, whether you are sick or not can only be determined after going to the hospital for examination.
Children with autism may be genetic, may be caused by trauma during pregnancy or childbirth, or may be caused by other factors the day after tomorrow.
There are many factors acquired, and one thing that should be paid special attention to is that you can’t give your mobile phone to two or three-year-old children, which can easily lead to autism.
Two or three-year-old children playing with electronic products such as mobile phones are easy to be immersed in their own world, do not communicate with others, and even ignore family calls.
Some parents don’t cry when they see their children playing with mobile phones.In order to keep him quiet, he put his cell phone into the child, and if he is not allowed to play with the cell phone, he will cry.
If you find that your child really has some manifestations of autism, don't be too panic.
First of all, we must face up to the child’s current situation and patiently correct the child’s abnormal behavior, such as confusion in the use of pronouns, and correct it once after hearing it, and correct it repeatedly.
Secondly, pay more love and responsibility to children, take them out to participate in outdoor activities, let children stay with their peers, and encourage children to make friends.
Once again, we must understand and respect our children. Don't think that the child is sick, that it is very shameful as a parent, or that the child is a burden to yourself, and scolds and scolds the child, not to mention the intention to give up the child.
Finally, children with autism generally lack care and love, and may also be accompanied by ADHD. They should be more patient and careful with their children and actively cooperate with the doctor's treatment. Rehabilitation treatment at home or sent to the relevant children's psychological hospital for treatment.
