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Austrian psychiatrist Adler said:
"Lucky people are cured by childhood, and unfortunate people are curing childhood." The acceleration of
's pace of life has caused more and more people to feel pressure and let Many parents show anxious emotions in the process of getting along with their children, and cannot help but lose their temper at their children.
No matter what reason you have to lose your temper, this method can only cause psychological harm to your child. A small emotion you don't care about will have an irreparable impact on your child.
loses his temper at the child and it is difficult to solve any problems. Only if you communicate with your child rationally and calmly, your child will accept you. Educate children that you must first suppress your anger, shut down your loud voice, and pay attention to your tone and expression when speaking.
No matter how difficult life is, please don't get angry with your child, it will leave a shadow in his heart and affect his life. Parents who often lose their tempers are more likely to raise children with this personality, which is very distressing.
has a grumpy personality and has no patience.
parents are the first teachers of their children. The character of the parents of the original family has a profound impact on the children. The first example of
children is to learn, observe, and imitate their parents' behavior. At home, parents always use tantrums to solve daily life problems, and their children will grow up with irritable tempers.
They think that losing their temper is the way to solve problems. When they encounter problems on their own, they will try to solve them by losing their temper. Over time, they will develop a hot, willful, and impulsive character.
This will also have a great impact on children's future interpersonal communication. Never think that children are young. It doesn't matter if you yell and yell occasionally, or scold or scold, in fact, this is really a big mistake.
As a parent, you must learn to control your emotions, set a good example for your children, and don't wait until you hurt your children to regret it.
Introverted low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence.
As a parent, he often criticizes his children. It is easy to make the children feel self-blame and make them feel that it is my fault. Children become "submissive" due to fear, which may lead to not having their own opinions in doing things in the future, and may even become weak.
has been blamed by parents for a long time, and some children will blame themselves, which will form a negative inferiority complex, and even affect the children's future interpersonal skills.
Don't often lose your temper to your child, which will not only affect his growth and development, but also affect the shaping of his character. Parents always lose their temper with their children and neglect their children, which will make them less and less confident.
In order to prevent parents from getting angry, children will naturally work hard to observe their words, and try their best to please their parents. Children who grow up in such an environment are often withdrawn and unwilling to interact with others.
Family education in childhood can often shape a child's outlook on life, world outlook and values. The bad temper of the parents will only leave a deep psychological shadow on the child, making the child conscientious and always please others.
Wheat’s message: Don’t lose your temper to your child, it’s the best care.
Being able to control emotions is a sign of a person's maturity, and is a lifelong learning topic.
No matter how hard your life gives you, in front of your children, please control your temper. Parents who tend to lose their temper will cause their children to have this kind of character, which is a sorrow for parents.
is not easy to get angry with children, it is a lifelong practice for parents. Parents should give their children more space for patience, tolerance and trust, so that the children can more easily accept the preaching of their parents.
Some children are disobedient, and parents will be angry with the baby with some grumpy tempers. After the fire, I regretted it very much. It was a very sad behavior. The greater the temper, the worse the effect of education. Losing your temper will not solve the problem, it will only make the child more timid and fearful. When parents lose their temper, they will also make their children close themselves up and unable to communicate.
Parents’ education for their children is first of all by example! As a parent, please control your emotions and give your children a good learning and living environment.
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