Each of us always has a variety of personality expressions in real life, some people have a good temper, and some people have a bad temper. The tempers of little babies are also the same. After birth, some babies have very difficult tempers and cry loudly at every turn. Sometimes their mothers can't coax them well, while some babies are very good-hearted, quiet and easy to take care of.
Therefore, many people will compare them according to their parents. If the father has a bad temper and the baby is very difficult to take care of, he will say: "Look, the child has inherited your bad temper." Doesn't it mean "the child misses mother very much and is a good baby" or something. So whose various tempers are inherited from children?
"It stands to reason that the couple's personalities are more lively. How come you have a child so quiet? It doesn't conform to scientific common sense." I even often make jokes with people, if the child looks like parents, I really think that Back then, it was "wrong hold" in the hospital. Once, Coco’s best friend heard this and directly explained:
"Coco, did you feel bad when you were pregnant, often anxious and sensitive, or even depressed?" Hearing what a girlfriend said. , Coco was even more curious: "How do you know? When I was pregnant, I was inexperienced and worried. In addition, my husband often angered me, so he kept thinking at home every day. Later, I almost got prenatal anxiety. "Z1z
heard Coco’s explanation, and my girlfriend also directly gave a conclusion: "Then it’s over, because the child’s temper is already determined in the mother’s womb, and most of it is affected by the mother’s emotions. You are pregnant. When he was in low spirits, he was always melancholy and sensitive. The child’s personality must have been influenced by you. He is naturally also introverted and sensitive, without inheriting the cheerfulness of the two of you.” Hearing this, Coco also suddenly realized it, but did not expect it to be. This thing. In addition, psychologists in our country have conducted a professional research on this earlier, and in the process of the research, they have reached a conclusion:
"a person's personality is mainly related to the neurotransmitters in the human brain. If a person When there is less serotonin, a neurotransmitter in the brain, people are prone to depression," and the amount of this neurotransmitter is determined by the mother's emotions when it is in the mother's stomach.
Therefore, the fetus’s character is closely related to the mother’s mood during pregnancy.
Speaking of this, many mothers suddenly realized that the character of the child is affected by this, so there is an interesting phenomenon, that is:
•mothers are picky eaters, and children are also picky eaters
•mothers Often anxious, children may also experience anxiety
•Mothers tend to lose their tempers and children may also have irritable tempers
•Mothers are always depressed and may give birth to children who are also sensitive
. So, from the above points, we know that during pregnancy , The influence of mother's emotion on the fetus is really very important. Therefore, during pregnancy, I also hope that every mother can do the following:
1. Maintain a peaceful mood
Maintain a peaceful mood, and don't be anxious and worried every day because of the baby. For the children and for themselves, live every day with a positive attitude and with a peaceful mood to welcome the arrival of the baby.
For pregnant mothers, a good attitude is really very important. Therefore, while the mothers themselves must maintain a good attitude, the support of family members is also very important. At this time, the husband should take on the burden of caring for the pregnant mother. He must be "considerate" and "warm-hearted" outside of work. Don't "bring" all the trivial matters at work and at home to the pregnant mother. this point is very important.
2. Maintain a reasonable work and rest
Not only that, but Bao Mom should also maintain a reasonable work and rest, even if the body does not allow it, it must not be reversed day and night. Otherwise, it is easy to affect the mood and energy of Bao's mother, and then affect the baby's character.
Reasonable work and rest are also conducive to the maintenance of health, and help to give birth smoothly during the labor period. Only by maintaining a good work and rest schedule can we use a better mental and physical state to welcome the arrival of new life.
3. Don't get angry easily, and don't always be anxious
In addition, during pregnancy, Bao Ma, try not to lose her temper easily, and don't always fall into anxiety. At this time, it is necessary for her husband and Baoma's family to be considerate of Baoma's emotions and try not to conflict with them.
The pregnant mothers are always "irritable and irritable", and will be "upset and irritable" if they feel uncomfortable. Therefore, the family, especially the husband, must know the temper of the pregnant mother, and patiently dissuade them. quarrel.
hopes that every pregnant mother can pay attention to the above three points and welcome the arrival of the baby with a peaceful and stable attitude. After all, the child’s future personality is closely related to the mother’s emotions during pregnancy. I also hope that every mother can pay attention to it, give the child a good personality, and let the child grow up healthily.
