1. Don’t add complementary foods too fine! !
Have you ever seen a baby who has to peel corn into grains after eating corn and then peel off corn skin ...
There are two such babies in my class. If a corn is not peeled off, they will spit it out! Eat kiwi so fine that you pick out the seeds one by one to eat...
Are you wondering if they can't swallow it? No, they don’t want to swallow! ! !
So from this small detail alone, you can't know that these two treasures are what everyone calls " rice residue ". They eat small bites, beep, and picky every day... One of them only likes to eat fatty meat (because it is slippery enough, so you don't have to chew it), and the other is not to eat meat at all (because you don't want to chew it at all).
Reason:
When the two babies were in school interview, the parents were not worried about anything, but only "eat". During the conversation, I learned that when these two babies were adding complementary foods, was worried that they could not digest well, and the rice was so thin that the meat and vegetables were mixed into a mud...
"chewing" is different from "swallowing". The former is that the baby needs to learn. It is too detailed when it shouldn't be fine. This is equivalent to depriving the baby of the opportunity to contact chewing. It is a habit to swallow anything directly like drinking milk, so anytime it is a little thicker, it will eventually be spit out.
so! ! The theory of complementary food from "Feature to Coarse" is not just a look. If you don't bite it for your child, your child will become more and more "lazy" and unwilling to bite it over time. Three meals a day, don’t want to get angry three times a day on the issue of eating, be sure not to deprive them of the opportunity to practice chewing.
2. Fine games are not IQ tax! !
"Wow, your child can eat by himself, and I eat all over the floor and the whole body"
" You are so good at wearing socks and folding quilts at 2 years old"
"You can do so many things by yourself at the age of 2, you don't have to worry about it"
As an early education teacher, I really want to say to your parents who sighed: You really don't need to envy your children, too. Just do it for him.
"I asked him to do it, but he refused to teach but didn't listen, and he couldn't do it by himself. He was very stubborn."
In fact, children reach a certain age, and they will gradually do it, but we will find that some babies are easy to get started, and some learn to lose their temper.
Reason:
The reason why babies who are easy to get started are easy, you will find that they know how to use both hands and are very coordinated. That is what we often call "two-hand writing ability" and "two-hand coordination".
In fact, have you ever thought that it is not that your baby doesn’t want to do it and is “stupid”, they are actually “powerless”.
In other words, sometimes the baby cannot wear socks because objectively the baby’s hands are not strong enough to stretch the socks; sometimes the baby always sprinkles milk because his wrist is not stable enough; sometimes the baby’s meal bowl is easy to turn because he objectively does not consciously hold it with his other hand...
And these abilities actually require conscious exercise, and you can play more delicate games. When the baby’s small muscles do well, it will be super helpful for mastering life skills in the future! !
3, Sex education It will be too late to wait until adolescence! !
Sex education actually has a large scope, and also includes the "sexual enlightenment" of young children, such as distinguishing the physiological characteristics of boys and girls, their own private parts, etc.
The source of indecent and sexual assault is all tragedy caused by not doing enough education in infants and young children!
How do you think of female classmates who get dirty pants during menstruation? 15-year-old boys who draw school pants in school are called to stop laughing at menstruation?
4. Cognitive development.
Have you ever observed a child aged 1 to 2 when he is playing? Have you noticed that he is very focused on everything he does.This is because he is using his brain to the fullest and he is learning!
is different from babies under one year old. At this stage, he likes things like switches, buttons, etc., and he enjoys it.
As a parent, please do not interrupt your baby when he is focusing on playing, do not ask him to drink water, and then ask him to eat apples. Because this will annoy the baby!
imitation is an important part of the learning of children of this age.
He will imitate you pick up the comb and comb your hair, although he only has 1cm long hair; he picks up the phone, imitates that he is talking on the phone, although he can't dial the phone number yet.
At first, he was just entertaining himself, but gradually, he would comb his doll's hair or put the phone to your ears to let you speak.
A large part of the baby's learning comes from imitation, not only imitating parents, but also imitating other people he comes into contact with, such as grandparents, brothers and sisters.
