Beibei successfully made tomato and egg noodles with encouragement from her mother. Beibei also has a greater confidence in his cooking skills. He feels that he can take care of himself in the future, and it doesn’t matter if his mother comes back late.
When parents encounter setbacks and failures, they use encouragement to help their children and understand them. This can cultivate their children's positive spirit, but encouragement and rewards are different. Encouragement is to help children adjust their emotions, give them more strength from the bottom of their hearts, and support them to move forward continuously. Rewards are material incentives that parents give their children to get a result, such as when their children do well in the exam, they will reward them with a lot of pocket money. This form of reward is novel for the child at the beginning, but after a long time, the child will focus on how to get the bonus and lose interest in learning.
So how should parents encourage their children? In fact, encouragement is to give children a better chance to perform, to discover their greater potential, and to make them more confident.
First of all, when parents encourage their children, they clearly point out that a certain behavior of their children is doing well and tell them why it is correct to do so. Then the child will remember this behavior and will do it frequently in the future.
Secondly, give the child encouragement when hesitates or hesitates. Encouragement at this time is a kind of support for children, because children are young after all, and cannot better recognize their abilities. Cowardly children are likely to retreat when they come into contact with new things. At this time, parents can first demonstrate their children, tell their children some skills when making the demonstration, and say to their children: "As long as you remember these little skills, this is not difficult for you, and your ability can be achieved." With such encouragement, the child's self-confidence will be enhanced and he can take a brave step forward.
Finally, it is timely encouragement when the child fails. When a child fails to do something, he will doubt his abilities and feel a little inferior. With the encouragement of parents, children can gain some experience from failure, but only stimulate more energy from failure. But if the child fails, parents cannot always look for the reasons from objective things. Instead, you should face failure with your children, analyze the reasons for failure together, and help your children find more ways to succeed, so that they can help them face setbacks better and not be afraid of failure.
