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Although newborn babies are delicate and cute, they are very weak, which requires extra care from new parents.
When children are born, they are not able to take care of themselves, so Parents need to take good care of themselves and gently "coax" them.
In the process of raising children, they can't help but hold the children to "sleep and walk around", especially before the children can walk independently, they all establish a deep parent-child relationship in this way.
Don’t look at the word “hugging children” is very simple, children also have many requirements for hugging:
If they just simply hug them, they will definitely not feel very comfortable, especially if they pick them up as simply as in daily life. As time goes by, the babies will begin to feel unhappy, which also makes many new parents very upset.
★ "Why do kids cry when they hold them, and stand up when they stand up"?
●They have the curiosity to explore the surrounding things
From a scientific theory, their curiosity will increase rapidly with age and body development.
So even when parents hold them, they want to explore the world around them, so compared to "sitting and hugging", they prefer parents to walk around while holding them, which can satisfy their curiosity in exploring things around .
●Holding the child can give the child enough freshness
Children are very fragile after birth, and it is difficult for them to do some "large-scale" behaviors, especially when exploring the surrounding world, they need to make slightly "efficacy" exercises, which is undoubtedly very difficult for children who spend most of the time lying in bed.
Every day, exposure to familiar environments cannot meet children's needs for exploring things around them, and such a boring and boring living environment is not what they want, because they often develop a desire to explore new things.
And many mothers have a certain feeling about this:
When children grow up a little, they always like to walk outside, and they always have a strong curiosity about all kinds of novel things. Therefore, when taking care of their children, they hope that their parents can walk around while holding them instead of just staying in one place.
●The way of walking in the arms makes them feel more relaxed
Children all like to be picked up and walked around. This is not only because we humans have such behavior, but also in nature, many mammals have such nature.
According to the experimental phenomenon conducted by a famous foreign scientist, "sitting and hugging" and "walking with your arms" will have a great impact on the child's physical signs in all aspects.
These effects are reflected in the child's sound, movement and electrocardiogram imaging .
To put it simply, when parents hold them and sit down, the children will be crying and making noise, and a little head is always looking around;
When the mother holds them and stands up and walks, they immediately calm down and have lighter movements, which means they prefer to be picked up by their mothers and walk around.
●Can give them more sense of security
holding it and walking. It seems closer to their living conditions before they were born.
Because they are immersed in uterus for a long time in amniotic fluid , and they are also in a state of movement as the mother moves. So if they stay in the same place for a long time, not only will they feel bored and bored, but they will also feel strong discomfort, so of course they will not like this state.
Although children like to let parents walk with their arms, it does make many parents "headache", especially those novice parents who have no experience do not know what to do, and in fact they are not as difficult as they imagined.
Just increase the frequency of communication and interaction with your child every day, and then explain and interact with your child when holding him/her.
Although this is a very "physical test", it can also make their babies more active and in a very good mood. This is only beneficial but not harmful for children.
Does your baby like to let you "sit and hug" the child "stand and hug"?
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