The status of children taking online classes reflects the attitude of their parents.
Whether parents fulfill their responsibilities of companionship, supervision and discipline determines the ultimate learning results of their children.
Author | Summer
A few days ago, the news of a female teacher in Henan who died of sudden myocardial infarction attracted a lot of attention.
It is understood that since early October, "online class explosioners" have been constantly appearing in Teacher Liu's live classroom.
They use all kinds of strange avatars and web names to play all kinds of noisy music, and disrupt the order of the live classroom through various despicable means such as insulting, singing, playing obscene videos, sharing screen interference courseware projection, etc.
Teacher Liu repeatedly dissuaded himself to maintain order, but they became even more serious.
Until October 28, this group of reckless "online class explosionists" directly insulted Teacher Liu himself, forcing Teacher Liu to break down and had to quit the live class.
After the class ended, the students all said that she was "angry", "missed", and "can't contact", but they didn't know that she had a sudden heart attack and left forever.
The death of Teacher Liu is deeply regretful and sad, and it also sounds the alarm for parents:
Online classes not only focus on children's self-discipline, but also on parents' supervision.
Nowadays, many children have begun to hate online classes, and even hate online classes, trying every means to destroy the classroom and avoid online classes.
If parents are irresponsible, regardless of whether they are not taught, their children will indulge themselves and fail miserably.
Children are not self-disciplined because of instinct
Ranking is the biggest cruelty
When my son first took online classes, it might be because of the freshness and was particularly excited.
Not only do I need to urge me to wake up early, but I am also very focused, serious and active in class.
But after a few days, my son began to experience various degrees of slackness and perfunctoryness.
Either you don’t get up in the morning, or you doze off while listening to online classes, or eat snacks.
Sometimes, the teacher teaches on the other end of the screen, and he chats with his classmates about gossip and games on the other end of the screen.
Once, I found that he didn't even write homework, and directly copied and pasted other people's homework and uploaded it to the Internet.
chats with many mothers, and I found that there are many children who are not self-disciplined in online classes. In order to avoid taking online classes, the children are all kinds of tricks.
Some children pretend to be network card as soon as they arrive at the teacher to ask questions.
Some children report the teacher’s live broadcast room, making it impossible for the teacher to live broadcast.
Some children let their photos face the camera, or make a dummy with clothes, while they hide aside and play with their phones secretly.
There is a saying in "Tsinghua Academic Masters and Teaching Children" that is particularly correct:
"Parents should understand that children lack self-control when they were young. Not taking the initiative is the norm for hard things such as learning, and taking the initiative is an abnormal state."
Learning is a "chore". Children's lack of self-discipline is instinct and nature.
So, when taking online classes, don’t expect your children to be self-disciplined.
An education expert once said: "Children will be willful, but adults cannot give up their supervision."
online courses are like a self-discipline battle. If you can't stand it, you will be outstanding, and if you can't stand it, you will be eliminated.
There is no constraint on real classroom discipline and no learning atmosphere, and parents are the greatest binding force for their children.
There are no children born self-disciplined, only parents who supervise and discipline carefully.
On the road of education, the least you should be lazy is parents
Some time ago, actor Zhang Meng once complained to reporters about his experience of accompanying his children to online classes:
"Don't listen to the class carefully, drink water for a while, pick up the eraser for a while, and the book is very clean after the class, and no notes are taken.
The effect will be better if you stare at him. If you don’t stare at him, he will not listen to the class seriously.
After the teacher finished the class, he can’t do his homework, and I have to teach him slowly. ”
The same online class, different effects, and the competition is actually the supervision and company of parents.
Because when children take online classes, teachers can only guarantee the teaching content, and cannot guarantee the child's acceptance and learning effect.
Whether the child is distracted in class, whether the notes are done seriously, and whether the homework is completed on time all require strict supervision from his parents.
A mother explored her daughter's online classes under the pretext of sending fruits.
It turned out that my daughter did not take online classes at all, but hid in the quilt and slept soundly after eating and drinking.
A primary school teacher found that there was a child in the class who often did not attend online classes. After learning about the situation, he learned that:
The child's mother often slept until noon before getting up.
After getting up, I just focused on browsing my phone and did not take online classes for my children.
There is also a child who always refuses to hand in his homework. The teacher calls his parents many times to communicate with him, and the parents always use "busy" as an excuse.
Later, I even hung up the phone or turned off the phone.
Online course is a "miss mirror" for children and a "touchstone" for family education .
Those diligent and self-disciplined children will soar to the sky and stand out after online classes. Those self-indulgent and playful and lazy children will retreat like a cliff.
Online courses can deceive yourself, but your grades will not make you lose your imagination.
How much parents have paid in online classes can get feedback on their children's grades.
Parents will let go and their children will be willful to the end.
Parents supervise carefully, and their children can learn something.
Parents’ attitude towards online classes determines whether the child will fail or make a big splash after school starts.
The daughter of a colleague was studying in a key middle school with excellent grades and hardworking. The same is true during the online course.
We often ask our colleagues enviously: "Why are you so lucky to raise such an excellent daughter?"
Colleague replied with a smile:
"Hey, she is not as conscious as you think. How many fuel-efficient lamps can a child have?
html l0After a long vacation, I am the same lazy and lazy.
If my father and I weren't watching every day and keeping in mind, we would have been having fun long ago. "
There are not many children who can easily overcome the lazy and indulgence in nature.
Companionship and supervision are always the unshirkable responsibility of parents.
On the road to education, the parents should not be lazy. What is more terrifying than the unconscious child is that parents don’t want to care about the trouble.
As Mo Yan said: "The excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents."
Behind every outstanding and motivated child, there is a parent who has been accompanying for a long time, is diligent in supervision, and is strictly disciplined.
On the contrary, behind every lazy and playful child, there is a parent who is infinitely indulgent, unresponsible, and negligent in discipline.
The gap between children is exactly the gap between parents.
Handle do these three roles
It is hard for children to not be excellent
Every excellent child's development is a cause and effect that can be followed.
If your child wants to win online classes, parents must do these three roles well.
- Good helper for teachers
During the online class, what a teacher said to parents was flooding the screen:
"Online class is a fair trial, which is not only the children but also the parents.
All students face fair teaching videos, fair homework, no 'disturbance from their deskmates', no reason such as 'can't see the blackboard', but self-discipline is compared.
At the same time, it is also the care and responsibility of parents. "
strongly agrees.
Good online classes are inseparable from parents' dedicated participation and supervision.
Does parents remind their children to study, check their children's homework, take photos and upload them in time, and assist their children in corrections, which directly determines the quality of their children's online class learning.
Every seriousness and responsibility that parents put in behind online classes will become the confidence and strength of their children after school starts.
Yu Minhong said one thing:
"In the process of a person's growth before the age of 18, the impact of family education accounts for more than 60%, school education accounts for 30%, and social education accounts for 10%. "
Only when parents cooperate with teachers, teachers support their children, and we work together to work side by side is the best education for children.
- The good companion of the child
There is a saying that goes:
"Walking alone can walk faster, but walking together can walk further."
Children who take online classes, when they face the computer, study all day long, will inevitably have boredom, slackness, and rebellious times.
If parents can put down their phones, turn off the TV, stay with their children, and become their children's "companions".
Even if you are busy with your own work or read a book quietly, your child will not feel that I am the only one studying.
If the child is allowed to see his parents' seriousness and concentration in their studies without the need for parents' supervision, the child will naturally work hard to get serious under the influence of his parents.
Good education is to moisten things silently.
Let go of the "identity" of parents and resonate with their children. This is not only the power of role models, but also the educational wisdom of "making a big move for a thousand times".
- The good student of the child
"Teacher Bai Yang" once said in his video:
"If my mother hadn't lie to me back then, I wouldn't have been to the Peking University ."
It turned out that when I was in elementary school, my mother lied to Bai Yang and said that she was illiterate and the factory wanted her, and she would not be able to make money to support Bai Yang in the future.
In order to find a job again, my mother asked Bai Yang to tell herself the knowledge she learned after school every day.
Bai Yang was so scared that she no longer dared to be distracted in class. When she got home, she quickly told her mother what she had learned.
Mom not only takes notes while listening, but also asks questions from time to time, praising Bai Yang for his good speech.
Just like that, Bai Yang learns more and more vigorously, and his grades are also rising.
In fact, this is the famous "Fehmann Learning Method" .
Children will inevitably have no motivation to take online classes alone.
Parents are children's students, and children are parents' teachers.
Let children tell themselves the knowledge they learn every day, which can help children consolidate their knowledge and make online classes more interesting and humane.
Secondly, it can allow children to gain a huge sense of responsibility, accomplishment and satisfaction, thereby stimulating their internal motivation, making them love learning the more they learn, and the more they learn, the more they become more energetic.
Psychologists have also said: "If you want children to consciously and voluntarily do something hard, the most effective way is to let them feel enough happiness and satisfaction."
Every parent who knows how to lower his posture and be a "child's student" is a hidden education expert.
"People's Daily " once published an article: If education depends only on teachers, it will really delay children. This is especially true for
"online class period".
You think the child is taking online classes, but in fact the parents are the ones.
Also take online classes, different parents will have different endings.
Parents are the first person in charge of their children's lives and the most important guides on their children's life.
Only when parents are not lazy or indulging in order for their children to learn to be diligent and self-disciplined.
Every bit of effort and sweat that parents put into their children will become a guarantee for their children's future success.
The most important thing in our lives is to do a good job in "training" and "supervising" on the road of children's life.
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