text/Tao Ma
At the parent meeting a few days ago, I heard several parents talking about the teacher at the school gate. In short, some praises and some complaints... I don’t want to make any comments on these, and people have different opinions. I personally think that the education of children requires the joint efforts of the parents and schools, and parents and teachers communicate and cooperate with each other in order to make their children better! Even if you have a little dissatisfaction with the teacher, you should not say it in front of the child. Thinking this is not good will also affect the child's attitude towards the teacher. This attitude will affect his love for the teacher, and in turn affects his liking for the subjects taught by the teacher. "Feel the teacher and believe in the way and then enjoy it." I believe this sentence must have his own reason!
Even if sometimes, the child has some negative emotions towards the teacher because he is unfamiliar, does not understand, or other reasons, parents should guide him in time and try not to destroy the image of the teacher in the child's heart. Maybe one day this teacher will be the object of his admiration.
Usually, when I chat with my child, I care more about whether the child likes his teacher. I will chat with him carefully, always understand his attitude towards the teacher, and give him praise in a timely manner. If the child has such a little negative emotion towards the teacher, I will resolve it in time or communicate with the teacher.
I remember that in the second half of the semester of the sixth grade, his English teacher, Mr. Zhang, sacrificed his rest time in order to allow children to integrate into junior high school life faster, and delayed the time after school every Friday, giving them 20 minutes of review and expanded classes. The child was a little resistant and said that many students hated delayed classes, and he didn't like them either. He finally got off school and had to go to class, but he didn't even have the time to listen. I said, yes, I don’t like it if I said it, and I hope to get out of school soon. But have you ever thought that if Teacher Zhang doesn’t teach you, can she get off work early and go home? Can you correct your homework first without staying up late at night to sort out your homework? Or do something you like? But why did she have to teach you classes? No one forced her to do it. The child thought for a while and said he knew. In fact, Teacher Zhang sacrificed his rest time for their own good. He would listen carefully to the class, otherwise Teacher Zhang's hard work would be in vain. Not long after entering the seventh grade, one day when the child came back, he excitedly told me that Teacher Zhang was so awesome! The expansion taught in the past is of great help to the knowledge I am learning now, so he easily understood the English lessons taught by Teacher Zhai . Over the years, I have never complained about his teacher in front of my child. All he has is praise, so the title of "teacher" has always been beautiful, sacred and respectable in the child's heart!
Zhengheng Middle School is the goal of the child in elementary school. After actually entering this school, the child liked every teacher he taught. He talked endlessly every day after school, saying how outstanding his classmates were, how good his teachers were, and how good his teachers were, and how little things were in the classroom, and saying that the teachers in various subjects were very exciting and could not listen enough. Also, their class teacher, Mr. Jiang, is very powerful. He admires him very much. He also teaches Chinese. He not only has good classes, but also has temperament. When she was in class, she often held books in one hand and inserted them in her pants pocket casually. It looked cool and beautiful. It was perfect to describe Teacher Jiang as "a genius with poetry and writing spirit." But unfortunately, Teacher Jiang only taught them for two months, and then it was replaced by Teacher Meng. The child was very uncomfortable at first and always compared them unknowingly. I asked him how Teacher Meng was? I must like it very much, right? He said, "I like it. Actually, Teacher Meng is pretty good, but I just can't help it. I always think of Teacher Jiang." I said it's normal for you to think like this. I often hear you talk about Teacher Jiang, and I'm a little reluctant to let it go, let alone you. Because Teacher Jiang has preconceived ideas, I have taught you for two months and have feelings for you. I think she is normal, and it will be fine after a while. You will definitely like Teacher Meng even more. In the subsequent chat, I will ask more about Teacher Meng’s information and praise her in time. Gradually, when talking about Teacher Meng, he no longer compared Teacher Jiang.He told me that Teacher Meng's class is very interesting and humorous. Although Teacher Meng is tall and powerful, Teacher Meng is usually very careful... In addition, Teacher Meng is a psychology student and is very powerful. She is a second-level psychological counselor and the highest level (I can't remember the specific words clearly, but it's a very admiring tone anyway). He also told me that Teacher Meng was very thin when she was young and was more handsome than she is now. He had seen photos of Teacher Meng when she was young. In short, he admired Teacher Meng.
He often describes Teacher Meng to me, saying that I will recognize him when I see him in the future. Once I went to Zhengheng to attend an open class. A teacher at the scene, the last time, the teacher named Meng was named Meng. Suddenly, he felt that he looked very much like the teacher Meng described by the child. In order to verify his feelings, he secretly took a photo and came back to show the child. The child actually said with smugness: "We Teacher Meng are amazing, you recognize him at first glance!" I was speechless. Shouldn't I be so powerful that I recognized Teacher Meng at first glance?
After entering high school, the child still likes every teacher of his, the experienced Chinese teacher "Grandpa Guo", the humorous and funny teacher Ji, the intimate elder sister, and so on. Unfortunately, all the teachers in the second grade of high school have been changed. When the class was first divided, the children were particularly reluctant to part with Teacher Jiang. Fortunately, time would dilute everything, and the children had gradually adapted to it and began to fall in love with every teacher they are now.
In short, from kindergarten to now, the child has no teacher he doesn’t like. The child has lamented how lucky he is that he likes every teacher he meets. It is true that along the way, every teacher the child has met is very good and dedicated. Here, I sincerely thank every teacher the child has met and thank you for your hard work to the child!
(2022.11.14 night. Some fragmented texts recorded in the past were handy this time, saving a lot of time. Haha, is this just a lazy person who has a lazy blessing? [grin])

pictures are casually matched, I like this green
