It is difficult for a person who always doubts himself to be really happy.
Even if someone else says something praises.
He would also repeatedly wonder in his heart whether he was really worth it.
And these negative thoughts always pop up out of thin air.
is mostly caused by long-term denial of people close to you.
Many parents and teachers pursue suppressive education.
They destroyed the possibility of children in their lives.
But when encountering problems, he asked the child why he didn't solve it.
In reality, parents are everywhere who want their children to become successful.
They will never see the shining points on their children.
A child who scored 95 points will be scolded when he gets home. You didn't get the full mark for such a simple question as
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won the top ten in the grade and still needs to be educated.
You are barely in the top ten in this not-so-good school. If you put it in a better school, you will be nothing.
And the children's hobbies will be said to be incompetent.
Many children who were originally quite talented were all lost in the denial of their parents.
What's more, it seems that it doesn't like all the behaviors of children.
Even some behaviors of love for beauty during adolescence will be scolded as if they are unpredictable.
occasionally did a good thing that everyone thought was good.
After getting home, his parents would deny it completely, saying that he should put his studies first and not meddle in other people's business with rats.
Some parents always cannot see the goodness of their children.
But the child's insignificant shortcomings are held firmly.
The timid children feel that they can't get on the table, but instead scold them even more fiercely.
Lively and active children, they dislike being too noisy and desperately suppress their children's nature.
Children with their own ideas, they think they are too innovative and try their best to be an ordinary person.
And those particularly obedient children hope that they will be outstanding and force them to become excellent.
To the end, the child was full of grievances in the process of growing up.
The parents who grew up with them are always disappointed.
What’s even more terrifying is that many children lose their remaining self-confidence in the constant denial of their parents.
Children with inferiority complex will be very sad and happy in the future.
suppressive education makes children's personality extremely sensitive.
Some children form a pleasing personality when they grow up.
They have no own opinions and put other people's ideas in front of everything.
Because they were scolded by their parents since childhood, they learned to guess people's hearts early on.
When I was a child, I tried every means to please my parents so that I could get less scolded.
After growing up, I kept currying favor with the people around me, hoping that I would be a good person who is versatile.
A little bit of kindness from others will make them flattered.
They are used to hiding their truest thoughts and carefully cater to the people around them.
The inferiority in their bones makes them always look for the reasons in themselves. If a person like
cannot meet someone who truly understands him, it will be difficult for him to get out of the vicious circle of inferiority.
suppressive education will also turn children into indifferent and stubborn stones.
Because they have never felt the sunshine and love since childhood, their hearts have become hard.
no longer has fantasies about people close to you, nor does he believe in anyone's kindness.
They live in isolation and do not communicate with anyone.
Live in your own world and are indifferent to other people's affairs.
They are eager to prove themselves and turn a deaf ear to the sounds around them.
will not seek help from anyone when encountering things that are beyond their reach.
would rather make yourself bruised than to resist the pressure alone.
After being depressed and lonely for a long time, they can no longer open their hearts.
They will spend all their energy just to avoid the people who have suppressed them.
Even if those who have suppressed them want to make up for it, it will be difficult to impress them anymore.
They seem to be conceited, but in fact they are inferior.
spends a lifetime to heal the misfortune of a period of time.
Many parents have a strong desire to control.
They try to pave the way for their children for a good life.
Even if the child has learned to walk, they still need to give guidance along the way.
The scenery that children were originally going to see by themselves disappeared from their shouts.
They thought they were protecting their children, but in fact they forced their children into the abyss of inferiority.
A confident person may gradually change due to changes in the world.
But a person with inferiority will only see the depressed side of the world.
The flowers and candies that are missing in growth make memories have no sweetness.
It is difficult to raise a child with courage.
But it is easy to create a child with his head down.
And most children spend the rest of their lives trying to look up.
