On the morning of September 9, I sent my grandson to kindergarten. I saw many children holding bouquets of flowers—more than one bouquet! Each class in our kindergarten is equipped with three teachers. Most of the children have three bunches, and some have three bright red roses. This year, Mid-Autumn Festival and Teacher's Day, the two festivals are combined into one, and it must be expressed.
Next to the kindergarten is a flower shop, which is usually deserted and business is booming today. Those who go to kindergarten and elementary school are brought to buy flowers with their parents.
My neighbor upstairs also brought his children to buy flowers. He had just had an operation and had a waist-protecting stent on his waist and walked very slowly. He said, "Sasa is crying if she doesn't buy flowers, and she is making trouble for her not to go to school."
, what’s the point of collecting so many flowers! And parents have spent a lot of effort and a lot of money.
is back and browsing today's headlines. My fans left a message: Teacher, you can also write about giving gifts to the teacher.
Yes! It's time to write.
More than ten days ago, I went for a backache massage. The masseur's son was in the first grade and his daughter was in the fourth grade. She discussed to me whether to give gifts to teachers. The gift is lighter, but the teacher cannot see it; the gift is heavy, but she said she can't bear it. If you don’t give it to me, I feel uneasy when I see someone giving it to me. One of her husband worked as a masseur and the other drove a taxi. She worked hard to support her son, daughter and parents, but she was not rich enough.
My point of view: No need to give gifts.
Education is the teacher’s job, it is his responsibility to teach students well, and it is his dereliction of duty if he doesn’t teach well. Parents of students do not owe teachers anything, so there is no need to give gifts.
Besides, parents don’t need to spend money on gifts. When I was working, the school gave me bouquets several times because of my advanced nature and because of my apprenticeship. If you are glorious for a while, what's the use of this? I stay at school all day long, my son is out of town, and my wife is not at home all day long, are the flowers blooming alone at home? Sometimes I put it in the office, sometimes I put it in the classroom, and sometimes I don’t walk out of the school gate, so I just pass it on to Aihua’s colleagues. You said, do I care about this bouquet of flowers?
There are also parents who give them real items, so I refuse - sincerely refuse. A class always has a high academic performance. Each student has several subject teachers and several teachers are teaching. The credit or responsibility is not all on one teacher. When the child is well-educated, parents thank the teacher - to give gifts; when the child is poor, parents of students think that the teacher's performance is well-educated. A teacher who loves education loves every little angel from the bottom of his heart, which is not all about appearance, grades and gifts.
On August 15th, parents will definitely give teachers mooncakes. No need. The teacher will give you benefits. You can have a sense of ritual, but you can’t eat it if you have too much. Mooncakes are junk food today.
Parents say that shopping cards are given. No need! The teacher’s salary is enough to maintain integrity and does not require this subsidy from parents. Besides, the teachers eat at school all day long, and the shopping card is not a necessity.
If a teacher hints you, inspires you, forces you, and gives gifts to him, it means that this teacher has a low moral integrity and is not worthy of his position. Giving gifts cannot guarantee that he can teach your child well. You do not have to satisfy his selfish desires and spoil him.
If he, because you did not give gifts, take his anger on your child, you can ask the principal to report the situation. I believe that every principal does not want his subordinates to have such subordinates who are greedy for small favors. Don't worry, the principal will not betray you.
Parents may be affected by a small bad atmosphere in society and believe that they will not give gifts or do things. Not so! What else can the teacher do? In class, students who do not give gifts can speak and sleep? Or don’t change the homework of these students? Not to!
Children make great progress, the teacher encourages them in time, and the child regresses, and the teacher must talk alone and ask what the reason is. This is related to the teacher's performance appraisal and professional title evaluation. Do teachers check the gift book and treat students differently? impossible! But, there are exceptions in everything. Maybe some gifts make children preferential treatment and their academic performance has improved by leaps and bounds. That is beyond my understanding. Don’t criticize me.
Be honest and be a teacher, and be a good example.Teachers will not show off their despicable faces to students and parents in order to collect unnecessary gifts, not to receive any unnecessary gifts.
If that happens, he will still have the confidence to stand on the three-foot podium, telling the students below the stage the great principles of life, and talking about the sacred science and humanities? Does he still have prestige?
A student, when he was in kindergarten, his mother's friend worked in it. In the morning, other children ate an egg and he was taken care of three (what his mother told me). The food must be taken care of and ate more every meal. As a result, the child was overweight and was assigned to my class in junior high school. The class was the most fat in the class. Physical education class was the class he feared the most.
My child, who is in the middle school, is in the school where my mother works. Every day, there are eight or nine homework, at least one teacher complains: how your child’s homework is, how about the small exam, how about the classroom... At the dinner table, the children are criticized one by one, making adults and children unhappy. When applying for a university, the child will retaliate and resign and leave the province! The farther away from you, the better.
Parents who give gifts may also pay special attention to your child, often post WeChat or call to repay your child's performance, which may not be a good thing. If your leader calls your parents several times a month to inform you about your performance at the unit, are you depressed or exploded?
still let children create interpersonal relationships at school by themselves, and parents do not need to use gifts to help!
National Day is coming again. Parents and friends, listen to me, you don’t have to worry about giving gifts, let adults and children get involved in their own world.
