This article was originally created by Tuanzi Mama Parenting. Personal comments and sharing are welcome. Modern women have more choices in delivery methods when giving birth, among which caesarean section is one of the more popular methods. Cesarean section can perfectly avoid th

This article was originally created by Tuanzi Mom Parenting. Personal comments and sharing are welcome

Modern women have more choices in delivery methods when giving birth, among which Cesarean section is one of the more popular methods. Cesarean section can perfectly avoid the process of opening the cervix before delivery, but postpartum incision care and recovery are what mothers must go through.

The wound area of ​​a caesarean section is relatively large, and it takes about 6 weeks to fully recover. Of course, if the wound is cared for properly, the recovery period can also be shortened.

What we often do when caring for wounds after caesarean section is to "disinfect and change dressings", so as to avoid wound infection and promote the rapid recovery of scars.

The mother was so distressed that she didn’t know where to start after disinfecting the wounds of her daughter who had had a caesarean section.

Within a week after the caesarean section, disinfecting the wounds was a must-do every day. As for disinfection work, you can ask a nurse when you are in the hospital, but once you are discharged from the hospital, it falls on the family to disinfect the wound.

On the Internet, a video of "Mother helping her daughter disinfect the caesarean section wound" resonated with many people. In the video, a mother is holding a cotton swab in her hand and has not moved it, looking embarrassed, as if she is suffering from something.

It turned out that this mother was disinfecting the wound of her daughter who was recovering from a caesarean section. Although giving birth is something that every woman must experience, when the mother removed the gauze from her daughter’s wound, she was still frightened by the scene in front of her. Living.

Looking at the precious daughter she regarded as the apple of her eye, suffering such a big mistake in order to give birth to a child, the mother was instantly at a loss. She did not dare to do anything easily even with a cotton swab, for fear that she would hurt her daughter if she was not careful.

As both women, mothers can better understand the pain of giving birth to children.

Although women have to suffer a lot when giving birth, this experience seems to be more distressing for mothers, especially when they see daughters struggling to give birth to children. , which made my mother even more distressed when she was covered in bruises.

The more my mother looked at the wound, the more distressed she became, her eyes filled with tears, and even the hand holding the cotton swab began to tremble.. When the daughter on the side saw her mother's reaction, she calmly reassured her that it was okay.

The mother said while crying: I have been here before, and I know the pain of giving birth. If I don’t feel sorry for you, who will feel sorry for you? I feel bad when I see this.

Such a touching scene resonated with many netizens on the Internet. Many mothers who had given birth said: When she gave birth, the birth attendants all smiled, and only her mother cried. It turned out that she was not unhappy, but she felt more sorry for her daughter's suffering than the younger children.

Such feelings can only be deeply understood after becoming a mother. A mother’s love for her children is regardless of age and scene. In the eyes of parents, we are always the children who have not grown up, and even more so. I can't bear to see my children suffer any injustice.

After a woman gives birth, the difference between her mother and other relatives is clear at a glance.

It is said that if a woman wants to know how to marry, it will be clear after giving birth to a child. Before and after a woman gives birth to a child, the attitude of her family can explain the problem well. Especially between the mother-in-law and the biological mother, no matter how harmonious they are, there is always a gap in their performance in matters big and small.

I still remember when celebrity Bao Beier 's wife gave birth to her child, her mother ran into the delivery room with a smile, while the mother-in-law came in crying. Especially when she saw her daughter's postpartum weakness, she felt heartbroken. shed tears.

So, when it comes to giving birth to a child, only the mother cares about herself, while others care more about the child. It is no wonder that everyone says "Only the mother is the true love."

There is no need to go through the pain of giving birth, which is a helpless move for contemporary mothers who do not want to have a daughter.

Although today's parents have abandoned the old idea of ​​"preferring sons over daughters" in the past, many people around Xiaodao, especially some Female friends, they hope to have a son in the future..

In fact, the reason behind it is not that boys are favored over girls, but that women need to take the responsibility of having children. I have experienced this experience myself, and I have tasted the sadness in it. I really don’t want my children to follow the same path in the future. .

So in their hearts, they always pray not to have a daughter in the future, just to prevent their children from trying the pain of giving birth again.

In fact, no matter whether they have a boy or a girl, parents must educate them well. Although boys do not have to experience the pain of giving birth, they should also be grateful for everything their wives have done for them, instead of having an attitude of "it has nothing to do with them";

For girls, giving birth is a process that must be experienced, but they must also know how to protect and care for themselves, because even if they have become a mother, in the eyes of their parents, they are still the child who needs protection.

Only by learning to love yourself at any time can your parents feel at ease.

Today’s topic: How did your mother behave when you gave birth to your child?