Introduction: In a family, both parents have the responsibility to educate their children, but many times we often say that one of the parents must sing the bad face , and one of the parents must sing the red face, so that the children will not lack Feel a sense of security and be more sensible.
So many families educate their children according to this concept, but usually the mother says good things and plays the role of a good person, while the father usually plays the role of the bad guy.
After a long time, it is very difficult for children to choose between them, because one party is their father and the other is their mother, but because of the different roles, in many cases the children will stand by their mother's side.
So in the eyes of the child, the mother is a good mother without any shortcomings, and the father will always stand on the opposite side of him. But as the child becomes a mother, he realizes that the good mother he used to be is not really Be a good mother.
He finally realized that when his mother started to go bad, the family would have a good life.
I finally had a good life after my mother started to "go bad"
Conclusion: When the child is on his own side, I believe that side is very happy, because the child is facing himself.
It is understandable that a mother is good to her children, but in communication with her children, if she blames the father for something wrong, it will unconsciously give the child the concept that the father is not good.
In a family like this, the children actually do not get real education and have no sense of security. Everyone in the family is very important. We can be good to the children, but we must not belittle the other party.
Our words and deeds directly affect our children's views on the future. We must not let our children become a tool for confrontation between us. A family should not fight, but should understand.
