communicated with many parent friends, I discovered a strange phenomenon: parents were playing mobile phones, watching TV, and playing games; at the same time, they were scolding their children to do their homework quickly and not hurry up. Sometimes I find this scene ridiculous. Parents never read, but they ask their children not to put down the books in their hands. They only say "take the time to read". There is not a single readable book at home, not even a magazine, but the children are required to read thousands of books.
The most important point in educating children is that "teaching by example is more important than words"!
If you educate children too harshly, it will make children afraid and afraid to communicate with their parents, and may even lead to children developing the habit of lying. If you are too doting, your children will develop the habit of arrogance and indulgence.
How to educate children?
1. Develop the habit of self-demand.
This is to make children responsible for themselves, train them to be independent and know how to take care of themselves.
2. Develop a character that respects and accepts others.
Only when you know how to respect others can you accept other people's opinions, respect the existence of others, and then you can do whatever you want and do whatever you want.
"The first way to deal with things is tolerance."
Respecting and accepting the character of others is the first essence of tolerance.
3. You must have the knowledge of cause and effect.
Only by knowing the cause and effect can children pay attention to their good and evil behaviors at all times. Children who understand cause and effect will know that they must bear responsibility for all their words and deeds. Only then can you know good and avoid evil, and get rid of evil and know good.
After developing such a right view, you will not take the wrong path in life.
4. Have the virtue of gratitude.
A child who knows how to be grateful from an early age will make contributions to his family and society in the future.
In short: Parents must first pay attention to their own words and deeds, words, attitudes and methods when educating their children. We need a combination of kindness and strictness, and we need to teach patiently. Don't use various frameworks to restrict children, respect their nature, discover their characteristics, and support their self-development.
■Correction of body and mind, understanding of gratitude, humility and benevolence are the correct ways of education for the Chinese nation.
The Right Way of Education
■The Master said:
"The person being taught should accept everything as if it were 'empty space', so that he can accept the truth.
The teacher should be like 'empty space', accepting everything, so that he can accept everything together." ”
Dear readers, friends who are parents: How do you do it through words and deeds?
welcomes your valuable comments and suggestions, and welcomes corrections. [prayer][prayer][prayer]
