" The appointment will be made two days later. Just come over and go directly to the 5th floor. You don't need to be hospitalized. Come to me after you are done. I will tell you some things to pay attention to, and then you can go back."
This is what my teacher needs to repeat dozens of times every day.
As an intern, I met many girls of similar age to me in the gynecology clinic.
are in their twenties, and all of them are exquisite.
"The cost of abortion is nearly 3,000 yuan, and the operation takes about 20 minutes. Various examinations are required before the operation and an appointment is made in advance. Three days of anti-inflammation are required after the operation. Compared with medical abortion, artificial abortion is much safer. ”
This is what every patient who undergoes abortion needs to know.
And the exquisite girls in front of me are exactly these patients.
Most of the girls outside the gynecological clinic came here on their own, a few were accompanied by friends, and very few were accompanied by their boyfriends.
made preoperative preparations alone, kept in mind the precautions alone, and endured the pain caused by the operation alone.
Those girls who are afraid of small bugs must have mustered up the courage to enter the hospital.
I didn’t dare to tell my friends that a group of people who would even choose to go to the toilet together chose to come to the hospital alone.
After the operation, each of the girls held their stomachs, frowned, and sat there lifelessly, using something to write down the postoperative precautions given by the teacher.
Afterwards, they still have to go home alone with their weak bodies.
Perhaps some people have experienced these things and become mature, realistic, strong, more and more independent, and become independent strong women. Or you may become the person you least want to be.
I met a girl who insisted on medical abortion.
The teacher explained very clearly that medical abortion is not safe, and you need to be hospitalized for observation three days after taking the medicine to prevent heavy bleeding;
Most medical abortions will have unclean abortion. If the abortion is not clean, it will still need to be done again in the future. abortion.
Medical abortion is indeed relatively cheap, but it is a gamble with your body.
After everything was explained, the girl still signed the consent form for medical abortion.
The emotion of worry and fear cannot be hidden. We have never experienced her life and cannot face what she faces. We have no right to interfere in the final decision.
In the following week, I did not see the girl again, and she did not follow the teacher's instructions to come to the hospital for observation. The teacher called her and said, "I'm sorry, the number you dialed is not available..."
If you choose to love that person, you must choose to be responsible for yourself.
I can’t imagine how a girl feels when she’s lying alone on the operating table, let alone persuade these girls to love themselves. I can’t even tell them a single safety tip.
Adults always have to pay the price for their choices. What they choose will eventually come back to their lives in the form of their experiences.
Either they are helpless, or they are not ready, or there are too many... We want to believe that every decision they make has been carefully considered. Between choosing and being chosen, they chose the former. .
Outside the clinic, there are too many such things.
One-third of the waiting patients are girls who are about to have an abortion.
Taking the test results, they lined up one by one waiting for an appointment.
And we are doing our utmost responsibilities and obligations.
I don’t know whether they feel uneasy, nervous or calm. Some of them are college students, some of their peers have stable jobs, and some of them are mothers with unexpected pregnancies. Everyone's purpose is different, but the results never change.
The door of a hospital clinic is the place that best reveals human nature.
has met too many people and experienced too much pain.
I can't comment on the decisions made by others, but girls, loving yourself will make others love you more.
Every girl is a unique existence in the world. She should live a healthy life, not be hurt by the world, accept the beauty of the world, and live into the version of herself that she wants, openly, generously, and without restraint. Based on this world.
On our way forward, various obstacles come our way, making us injured, hesitant and even giving up; but strong girls, we will eventually gain the joy of overcoming difficulties.
Girls, you must still maintain an optimistic mood towards this beautiful world. While
believes in love, I also hope that you will continue to improve yourself and have the ability to protect yourself.
If one day, even if your whole world collapses, I hope you still have yourself to rely on.
