name is like our life code name, and has very important significance. If the name is not nice, it will not only make the child inferior and unwilling to say his own name, but will even affect his future development.
However, naming is indeed not an easy task. Many parents complain that they have consumed their brain cells in order to give their children a good name. Today I will tell you a few misunderstandings about naming, don’t get into a trap~
The name is too complicated
When naming a child, many parents only pay attention to whether the name looks good or not, but ignore a very important question, that is, it is not easy to write.
Someone on the Internet says that if you name your child a selves (bìng dá), most people probably don’t know these two words, let alone write them out. Such a name not only embarrasses the person who calls them, but also makes the child feel very depressed, especially during the exam, when others are already doing the questions and their name has not been finished.
Therefore, when naming your child, don’t overly pursue “different and innovative”.
name copying and copying
Nowadays, in order to show the love of parents, it is popular to add the surnames of both parents to the children's names. If the combination is good, it sounds good to read and means auspicious, which is also very good.
But some people directly force the father's surname + mother's surname + name, and the names given to children are strange and have no characteristics. For example, the father's surname is Liu and the mother's surname is Wang. The homophonic word for King Liu is "exiled", which is very unsuitable for the child's name to appear at the same time.
name is completely Westernized
Nowadays, many parents will give their children too "foreign" names in order to cater to foreign cultures, such as John, David, Ruth, etc., which can easily affect their children's future communication and also easily put a certain amount of pressure on their children's spiritual growth.
If you really prefer European and American-style names, it is recommended that parents give their children a nickname.
The name is difficult to read
Many times, when parents are naming, they often pay too much attention to the five elements, meanings, and shapes of characters, thus ignoring the music of the name, so that the child's name is difficult to read or easily misread.
For example, the names of the three characters "Liu Nengnian" and "He Hena" have relatively high requirements for the rhythm, so we must also take into account the pronunciation of the characters when naming them.
