"I really can't help but laugh. My mother-in-law and I took our children out for a walk. My mother-in-law walked in front with the child in her arms, and I walked behind wearing slippers. Everyone thought that my mother-in-law was the child's mother, and I was the child's nanny.

"I am really laughing so hard. My mother-in-law and I took our children out for a walk. My mother-in-law walked in front with the child in her arms, and I walked behind wearing slippers. Everyone thought that my mother-in-law was the mother of the child, and I was the child. "

Recently, Yibao's mother and her mother-in-law went out to walk their baby in Xi'an, Shaanxi. The mother-in-law walked in front with the child in her arms, and she walked behind in dragging her clothes.

Everyone who saw it thought that the mother-in-law was the mother of the child and she was the nanny at home. What is going on with

?

It turns out that this woman (let’s call her Ms. Chen) usually doesn’t like to dress up, and she mainly dresses casually and comfortably. When

is not at work, basically hangs around the house with disheveled hair, wearing pajamas and slippers.

On this day, my mother-in-law suggested taking the children downstairs for a walk.

Ms. Chen heard the suggestion and agreed.

After waiting for a while, the mother-in-law stepped on high heels, a hip-covering skirt, matching earrings and necklace, and was ready to go out with her child in her arms.

Ms. Chen also went out without realizing that she was still wearing pajamas and slippers.

walked downstairs and found that everyone was greeting her mother-in-law.

said things like "The baby is so cute" and "Aren't you going to work today?"

Everyone automatically ignored Ms. Chen who was following her mother-in-law and children.

Ms. Chen followed, and the more she listened, the more she felt something was wrong.

Why does it sound like the mother-in-law has become the mother of the child?

You don’t even say hello to the people who usually know you?

Ms. Chen was puzzled at first.

Until my mother-in-law turned around and urged: Hurry up.

Then the mother-in-law looked at herself from top to bottom.

Ms. Chen also took a look at herself - a set of pajamas that had changed color after washing, a pair of plastic slippers, and her hair was not washed or oiled.

Take another look at the mother-in-law who is walking in front, wearing high heels, a hip-covering skirt, exquisite earrings, a stylish haircut, and some light makeup. Her mother-in-law is full of fashion sense.

This comparison is really cruel.

No wonder no one said hello to me. Everyone thought that I was the nanny because I was unkempt.

After seeing what happened to the woman, netizens also had different opinions:

Some netizens said: In today's society, young and old people have changed their lifestyles. Old people like to wear skirts, young people like to wear trousers;

old people like to wear light makeup, young people like to be bare-faced;

old people like to follow fashion and trends, and young people like to buy casual home clothes.

So, times have really changed, and there is a generation gap between young people and old people.

Some netizens said: I went shopping with my mother-in-law, and she bought clothes for one to two thousand yuan without blinking an eye. I had to think about it for a long time when buying clothes that cost one to two hundred yuan.

After retirement, the elderly have retirement wages and less pressure. Their lives are indeed more nourishing than those of young people.

Some netizens said: This woman pays too little attention to dressing up. If this continues, her husband will probably dislike her.

Actually, there have always been different opinions on the topic of whether to dress up to please your husband or others.

I have a female friend who is very beautiful. She was the "goddess" in the hearts of many people during college. After

graduated from college, she joined a large enterprise and was considered a "goddess" in the enterprise.

Normally, she doesn’t like to wear makeup, so she basically just looks bare-faced.

I can't stand her natural beauty. She is very sweet and lovely.

Later, through someone's introduction, she married a civil servant.

I originally thought that she must be very happy because she was beautiful and married well.

But after four years of marriage, she learned that she was divorcing her husband because he had cheated on her. The person

cheated on was actually an accountant of a small company.

Xiao San’s appearance is obviously not as good as hers, her education is not as good as hers, her figure is not as good as hers, and her work is not as good as hers.

But her husband loved that mistress to death. Even if he abandons his wife, he still wants to sleep with his mistress.

Later, when negotiating the divorce agreement, she asked her husband, why did he choose the mistress instead of herself?

Her husband's answer was even more incredible: The mistress actually beat her in dressing up.

Knowing the answer, she immediately collapsed: I am at home, taking care of the children, doing housework, going to work to earn money, and taking care of the family. I am just like an old mother.

As for the mistress, she only knows how to put on makeup and dress up every day, and check in at various internet celebrity sites, creating an aloof temperament, but in fact she doesn't know how to do anything.

Two people so different from each other, why am I the one who is hurt and abandoned?

We also comforted her: It is a man who is ignorant and mistakes fish eyes for pearls, and he will regret many things in the future.

Later, several of us also considered this issue. Are men really just visual animals?

Do men just like bad women?

Don’t men like women who are plain-faced, take care of their husbands and raise their children, and are diligent and thrifty in running the house?

We often say: Men are not bad, but women do not love them.

This sentence is actually the same when applied to men: women are not bad, but men do not love them.

Looking back at the mistress, she knows the mood of life very well, is very good at creating romance, very good at enjoying life, and occasionally can be very artistic and youthful. A woman like

, if she adds a little bad intentions, will indeed attract men with weak willpower.

Fortunately, later on, my female friend was not dragged down by negative emotions, but actively improved herself.

worked hard to improve his work ability. He studied for a postgraduate degree and also signed up for a dressing course. His overall temperament improved several levels.

is now a middle-level manager in a Fortune 500 company.

She often sighs: I feel that modern society has higher requirements for women. They need to be able to work in the hall and the kitchen, and they must also learn to create surprises and enjoy life.

Indeed, outside of work, we can: read more in our free time to improve our inner thinking;

learn some dressing skills; broaden our horizons...

let ourselves improve from the inside out. , to change.

This is not to please men, but to please yourself.

Therefore, women must learn to please themselves.