In the face of bullying and bullying, we not only need to teach children "truth, goodness and beauty",
we also need to tell children that only when you are strong can you not be afraid of all darkness and evil.
Author | Tomato Mom
A few days ago, I saw a heartbreaking news.
A 15-year-old girl in Shanghai jumped from the balcony of the sixth floor because she was bullied at school.
The girl who committed suicide is none other than the child star Shao Yibu, who has appeared with Deng Chao in many works such as "Dream Chaser", "Building Dream Love", and "Galaxy Tutorial".
Who would have thought that in the eyes of outsiders, this beautiful, lively, bright and intelligent little girl who has collaborated with major stars would be on the verge of collapse because she was rumored, smeared and isolated by her classmates...
Although she was lucky enough to save a life, However, the little girl's follow-up treatment was difficult and long, and the trauma in her heart was even more difficult to heal.
We always feel that campus bullying is very far away.
In fact, just a few days ago, a friend told me -
Her daughter has just entered the third grade of elementary school. Recently, she was humiliated and given nicknames by several children in the class. She cried at home and did not want to go to school.
She said her heart broke when her daughter cried out those ugly words to her.
The most terrifying thing is that the experience of being bullied and isolated will not only cause physical harm to the child, but will also linger in the child's heart and become a lifelong shadow and nightmare.
We cannot protect children for a lifetime. Rather than letting children live under our wings, it is more important to make children become people who are not easily bullied.
In order to prevent problems before they occur, these 8 sentences must be read to children as early as possible.
Don’t be weak in your momentum
Walk with aura
Speak generously
Don't talk about privacy lightly
Don't need to be too good
Don't please others
Dare to say no loudly The school is actually a small society for children.
There are some things that if you don’t say them, no one will ever tell them.
When a child's values are not perfect, teaching the child some social experience and principles of doing things will not only help him avoid being bullied, but also help him become more comfortable in study and life.
Like "Like" , I hope we can all cultivate a child with a strong heart, confident, aura, neither humble nor arrogant, and face life with a free and easy attitude.
