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In summer, " playing with water " has become one of children's favorite games. Playing with water is not only fun, but also improves children's physical and cognitive development. Therefore, parents also prefer to take their children to experience the fun of playing in the water.
It is okay to play with water, but you must choose a safe place. Once the venue is chosen incorrectly, the risk of playing with water will increase.
What a big heart! A mother takes her son to play in the fountain in the community.
It is said that today’s parents do not take the usual path when raising their children. When it comes to raising children, parents seem to be more childlike than their children. No wonder the old people always say that today’s parents are not Too reliable.
Recently, a mother did something quite unreliable. In a fountain pool in a community, a little boy was wading in the water with his bare feet, and the child's mother was also in the fountain pool, playing with the child with her bare feet.
I saw this mother taking off her shoes in the fountain pool, holding her child while playing in the water. She seemed quite satisfied with this way of playing. However, in the eyes of others, such a scene can be described as dangerous.
You must know that there are lines in the fountain pool, and coupled with the conductivity of the water, it is easy to get an electric shock ; and the fountain may be opened at any time, and the damage caused by the impact of the huge water flow is fatal. In such a dangerous place, this mother actually brought her children to play. I don’t know whether it’s because of ignorance or big heart.
Everyone tried to dissuade her, but she was rejected. The child’s mother said: “Nosy”
For safety reasons, the well-meaning people around asked the mother and son to come up. Even a kind-hearted elder sister reached out to help . However, the mother was uncharacteristically unwilling to accept everyone's dissuasion, and even accused others of being nosy , while she still stood motionless in the fountain pool with her child.
This mother just couldn’t listen to everyone’s kind reminders, and even had a quarrel with her at one point. No matter how much everyone explained to her how dangerous the fountain pool was, the mother and son still refused to go up.
The quarrel instantly attracted the attention of surrounding residents, who tried to persuade the mother. However, no matter how many people tried to dissuade her, the mother and her child were still in the water, and even finally walked towards the middle of the pool.
So many people still refuse to listen. This is not a matter of lack of common sense. This is a lack of IQ. ~ If an accident really happened, it is estimated that this mother will realize how stupid her actions are.
"One generation cannot have a good wife, and three generations cannot have a good son." The quality of women in the family has a great influence on future generations.
Children playing in the fountain pool may be "those who do not know are fearless". After all, they are young and are not so aware of dangers. consciousness.
However, as an adult with basic safety awareness, it is really unethical to remain stubborn despite many attempts to dissuade others, thinking others are nosy and jealous that they can play with water for free.
In a family, the words and deeds of parents can serve as role models for their children. Children's future behaviors and morals are also learned from their parents. But can such a mother set a good example for her children?
A mother who is greedy for petty gains, refuses to correct her mistakes, and is arrogant and unreasonable. The children brought up by such a mother will also imitate the same in the future and be properly taught. When the children grow up, it is difficult not to show these shortcomings in the mother.
No wonder someone commented: In the future, you must look at the character of your partner. "There is no good wife in one generation, and there is no good son in the third generation." A woman's quality will largely affect future generations.
Summer is coming, how to safely solve the problem of children playing in water?
Children basically like to play with water, because water can bring them unlimited imagination and joy. However, when children experience the joy of playing with water, parents must also ensure their children's safety.
For younger children, it is relatively safer to create water play conditions at home according to local conditions than going out to play in the water. You can fill the bathtub in the bathroom with water to satisfy their desire to play with water.
For older children, they can go out with their parents and experience various environments. Compared with such as children's swimming pools, water parks, aquariums, etc. , these have entertainment facilities suitable for children to play in the water, and most of them are based on the characteristics of children and are more secure in terms of safety.
In addition, on rainy days, it is also a good way for children to wear rain gear and jump in puddles . The little feet splash countless muddy water drops, and the little face blooms in laughter. Isn't this scene familiar to us adults?
Generally speaking, taking children to play in the water in summer must be safe. You cannot just take your children to play in water areas because you are afraid of spending money or trouble. As guardians of children, the first thing parents ensure is the safety of their children, Let your children spend the summer safely in a cool and interesting atmosphere.
Today’s topic: What do you want to say to this mother who took her child to play in the fountain?
