Growing up, I was not a lively person. My mother said that I was very dull since I was a child. Other children and their parents would cry when they went to the street to buy this or that, but I would just stare blankly and would not do anything if I didn’t cry. No, if my mother

Growing up, I was not a lively person. My mother said that I was very dull since I was a child. Other children and their parents would cry when they went to the street to buy this or that, but I would just stare blankly and not cry. Don't worry, my mother will buy it if she wants to. If she doesn't buy it, I won't take the initiative to ask for it. Of course, it's not because I am sensible, but I simply don't think so much. If it weren't for my young age, I might think that this baby is not a fool. And watching other children get the candies in their hands and new clothes through "fighting", I didn't feel dwarfed or aggrieved.

As I grew up, my personality began to gradually become more active. Compared with the Buddhist mentality when I was a child, when I grew up, I entered life and the workplace with the spirit of a newborn calf who is not afraid of tigers. That is, From the moment I entered the workplace, I realized that sentence: In the adult world, there is no job without grievances.

My first job was in sales at a training company. I contacted some company bosses over the phone and asked them to take their employees to our training. I didn’t know much at that time, so I relied on my youthful enthusiasm and the company The boss gave me chicken blood three times a day, made hundreds of phone calls a day, and the monthly text message fee was no less than 1,800 yuan. I persisted in this state for nearly two years.

In the past two years, I have worked overtime until 90 o'clock most of the time. This is a "tacit understanding" shared by everyone in the company. The rule is to get off work at six o'clock, but if I leave on time, it seems to be disloyal, although I really want to get off work on time. , but in the end I still chose to "follow the good"...

It's already around 10:30 when I get home every day. My family thought that my income should be quite high after working so hard, but in fact, the basic salary at that time was only 1,800 yuan, and for novices like us, we basically worked as cannon fodder. Our monthly income did not include phone bills, commuting, renting a house, and we had to pay for it. , but I always felt that I would get better soon and achieve results, so I gritted my teeth and persisted... It was also during that time that my relationship with my girlfriend at the time continued to have conflicts. The last time we had an argument, she took my luggage directly from the 6th floor. The windows were all thrown down. It happened to be raining heavily that night. I clearly remember that I took a snakeskin bag and stuffed things in one by one downstairs, and then carried it on my back. I didn’t have an umbrella, and I was just soaked in the rain. Yu went to a colleague's dormitory and made do there for a while...

Seeing that my efforts had not yielded results for a long time, I began to doubt my abilities and even began to feel inferior. However, the leader continued to do it over and over again. When asking about performance... performance, there were many times when I was close to collapse, poor, and under too much pressure. Even my girlfriend of 2 years abandoned me. Finally, I took some time off and went back to my hometown for half a month. I had a lot of fun and relaxed for half a month. On the first morning when I returned to the company, I went straight to the general manager’s office and said only one sentence: I don’t want to I worked...

and then changed several jobs one after another, but life in the workplace is really the same. You have to bear what you should bear, and you have to accept all the grievances you shouldn't bear. This is the reality.

Just like that, a few more years passed in a daze, until I finally returned to my hometown city.

After experiencing my previous life, after careful consideration, I started to do catering with my friends. It was really tiring because there were not enough manpower. From getting the raw materials to preparing, opening the store to closing, I had to be involved in the whole process, and I was always worried about recruiting new people. I didn’t do it well and worried about it all the time. I lost 10,000 yuan in the first month, and thousands more in the second month. In the third month, I finally made a small profit. Just when my friends and I were happily preparing to do something big. At this time, the terrible year 2020 has ushered in... There is a time in life that must be there, but there is no time in life, so don't force it.

During this period, I also experienced some other things, including the incomprehension of my family, the deception of my friends, and even the betrayal of my most trusted friends, etc. If you want to care about it, there are grievances hidden in everything. Sometimes, I wonder, is it possible? Am I the only one in this world who suffers this unfair treatment from God? I am so wronged that I have countless reasons to give up, but I can't do it. If it is like what some idealists say: go home when you are wronged, and change your job if it doesn't go well, it would be nice to be that simple, but as an adult, It’s hard to have the chicness and strength to walk away like this. After all, life requires money to support it. Men, you can’t be without money even if you are sick.

Time continues to move forward, and after constant setbacks, life begins to slowly improve. In the past, when I was unhappy, I wanted to find someone to talk to. But now that I think about it, most of the people I listened to just left with satisfaction after hearing the story.

I don’t know when it started. I stopped complaining to the outside world about the grievances I suffered, and finally understood one thing. There is no one in this world who has not been wronged. It’s just that some people choose to vent, and mature people have long since I learned to swallow complaints, swallow grievances, swallow broken teeth and blood, and silently solve problems.

Many times, what consumes us is not other people’s opinions, but our own uncontrollable spreading emotions.

The human heart is not made strong by desire, but strengthened by grievances. Those grievances you endure silently will definitely make you more dazzling and wonderful one day in the future.

Being able to withstand grievances shows that you are superior to others.