In life, because there are many things to deal with, parents may quarrel with relatives and elders many times.
Today we will take a look at what we should do as children when encountering this situation:
Stop it in time.
When we find that parents and elders often quarrel, the first thing we need to do is to stop them in time.
No matter what method you use, let both parties stop talking first, and the remaining matters can be negotiated slowly later, because people are more likely to be impulsive when quarreling.
apologizes.
No matter who did something wrong, as juniors, we can apologize to each other first.
Because in many cases both parties may be at fault, but since they are of the same age, they may feel that apologizing is shameless.
As a result, no one was willing to give in, resulting in a stalemate, which was not good.
Figure out why things are happening.
Ask your parents to understand the situation clearly. In fact, sometimes it is just a small matter. After understanding the situation clearly, we can better solve the matter.
Untie the knot between the two parties and avoid frequent quarrels or unwillingness to meet between parents and elders when the two parties meet in the future.
resolve conflicts and try every means to resolve conflicts between the two parties.
When necessary, we can seek help from other close relatives and work together to find ways to resolve conflicts. In this way, there may be many solutions that we can't think of ourselves.
Respect your elders.
Tell your parents to respect your elders, although sometimes the mistakes of your elders may be bigger.
However, respecting the elderly and caring for the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. You can tell parents some relevant content to make them more tolerant.
What should I do if parents and elders often quarrel?
Of course, if the seriousness of the matter has exceeded our imagination, then we can ignore it for the time being.
When we are helpless, let our parents solve the problem, but if we meet our elders, we still have to be polite and don't confuse ourselves with our parents.
