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As the saying goes: "It is never too late for a gentleman to take revenge in ten years." It means that it is not too late to settle the accounts after ten years for the hatred forged back then. But more often than not, this sentence is to persuade people to let go. After all, if you look back at what happened ten years later, you may just laugh.
However, recently two children have proved with practical actions that "a gentleman's revenge lasts all day and night"!
"Revenge sooner rather than later", two children in the kindergarten punched and fought during a performance
It is the graduation season of another year, and naturally it is no exception for the children in the kindergarten. Every year during the graduation season, the school will hold a graduation ceremony, among which naturally Indispensable the children's performance section objectives. In the video
, a kindergarten is performing a graduation ceremony. The atmosphere of the performance was originally relaxed and happy, but an unexpected situation shocked everyone.
At that time, the children in the performance were all kneeling on one knee with their hands on the shoulders of the person in front. At this time, the second to last child on the left suddenly punched the child in front of him.
The child who was pushed down was not to be outdone. The two of them were wrestling with each other on the stage in front of their parents and teachers. The child behind was even more frightened. He didn’t know where to go with his hands, and looked like he didn’t know where to go. A confused look.
Two cute kids had a fight on stage and made everyone laugh. The teacher rushed to the rescue.
It was obviously a dance performance, but in the end it turned into a "fight". Watching two performances in one performance was really interesting., Faced with such an embarrassing scene, the teacher in the audience quickly ran to the stage to stop it.
What made everyone laugh the most was that after the two people who were fighting a second ago were pulled away by the teacher, they could still return to the team as if nothing had happened and perform again to the rhythm of the music. No wonder netizens ridiculed: These two The child still knows how to return to the team after playing~
Such a farce occurred during the performance, which really made people stunned. But what everyone is more curious about is why the two children conflict? Some attentive netizens discovered: When the child behind put his hand on the shoulder of the child in front, he seemed to be "pinched" by the child in front.
Adhering to the idea of " A gentleman's revenge is not equal ", the children behind him directly fought back, so there was a scene in the video.
In fact, we are not sure what the specific situation was at that time. What was the reason for the conflict between the two children? It is estimated that only the two little dolls themselves know.
My child fights with other children in kindergarten. Is it normal?
In kindergarten, children compete for toys or have some conflicts. It is easy for physical conflicts to occur, and two children fight together.
This is a very normal situation. After all, children are different from adults. They do not know how to adapt to problems and their handling methods are not perfect. When emotions arise, fighting is the most direct and simple way to deal with them.
In addition, two children fighting in the kindergarten is actually a way for them to practice social interaction. The social ability of young children is divided into two situations, one is "prosocial" behavior, and the other is "aggressive" behavior .
When two children conflict, physical violence, crying, and pinching each other are very common manifestations. It is also difficult to avoid physical conflicts and some children will be injured. Children are the thorns in the parents' hearts, so naturally they do not want to see their children hurt. A little damage.
However, When children have conflicts with other children in kindergarten, parents should treat them rationally. Otherwise, if they are not handled well, the injured ones will still be their own babies~
When faced with children’s fighting behavior in kindergarten, parents should How to deal with it?
As a parent, whether you hear your children fighting in kindergarten or being beaten by others, you will definitely feel uncomfortable inside. So as adults, how do parents deal with conflicts between children?
In fact, it is normal for children to fight and fight. In fact, it is very simple to cause conflicts between them. A toy, a position, or even a piece of rubber can cause conflicts between two children.
Such a trivial matter is naturally not enough to cause the parents of both parties to quarrel, so before deciding what to do, parents had better find their children to understand the situation clearly. Parents should not rush to intervene, but first analyze the root cause of the conflict with their children.
Like the child above, the reason why he took action was actually because the child in front of him pinched the person first, which led to this dispute. After determining whose fault it is, analyze with the child whether the other person's actions are regular or occasional, and then take corresponding measures.
Tuanzi’s mother wants to say:
For children in kindergarten, their concept of the world is still very simple. If a fight occurs between them, they can basically solve it by themselves. In fact, sometimes there is no need to deliberately solve it, and it often happens in the next second. Will be reconciled as before.
Therefore, when faced with children fighting in kindergarten, as long as they are not injured, there is really no need for parents to be too " glass-hearted ".
