Another batch of grown-up children will enter kindergarten in autumn. While parents are happy that their children are growing up and finally going to school, they also have many worries, especially for children with timid personalities. Parents have Lots of worries.
Here are some answers to questions about children who are timid when they go to kindergarten. I hope it can help these parents.
Question 1: If I am very timid at home, will I be left out in the kindergarten?
Every baby who has just entered the kindergarten will feel more or less restrained after changing the environment, and will have separation anxiety and not be as generous and lively as at home. However, after 1-2 days of familiarization, the children will gradually adapt to the kindergarten. As you live your life, you will gradually become more generous and gregarious.
Some children are timid at home. After entering kindergarten, they may have little language and are not good at expressing themselves. In this case, you should clearly inform the teacher on the first day of entering the kindergarten, or at the one-on-one meeting between the teacher and the parents before entering the kindergarten. .
In this case, the teacher will record it. When the child comes to kindergarten, the teacher will guide and encourage him to socialize more with children and help him express more. Gradually, the child will gain self-confidence, dare to speak, dare to express, and be willing Play with other children.
Timid children will not only not be excluded or left out, but also through going to kindergarten to live together, the children will become more and more generous and confident.
Kindergarten education is an education for all children, cultivating children's all-round development of body, intelligence, morality, beauty and labor.
Question 2: My child is timid at home. Can he actively raise his hand to answer the teacher’s questions in class? How would a teacher handle a less active child?
Learning in kindergarten is different from learning in primary school and middle school. Most of the learning is done through games, play, and activities. When they first enter kindergarten, the teacher teaches the children to raise their hands when speaking and how to raise their hands, and the teacher will demonstrate the teaching.
Your child is timid and you are worried that your child will not raise his hand. This is just wishful thinking on the part of the parents. Children are different in kindergarten than at home.
The environment is different, You have to believe in the influence of peers and the encouragement of teachers. The teacher's words are like "imperial edict" to the children, because the children like the teacher.
Children have a sense of competition and like to be praised by the teacher. When he is praised by the teacher and driven by the enthusiasm of his friends to speak actively, he will unconsciously raise his hands to speak.
If the teacher finds that a child never raises his hand to speak, or is not good at expressing himself, the teacher will give the child a chance.: "I know that the ** child wants to tell the teacher the answer. Can we give this opportunity to the ** child?"
With the teacher's encouragement, motivation, patient waiting and expectation, the child answered the teacher's question. The teacher seized the opportunity to encourage and praise the child. The child will be very happy, and his self-confidence will increase by several points. Gradually, the child will no longer Got timid.
Question 3: Children are timid and dare not express themselves. They are very worried about going to the toilet.
It is understandable that adults help, urge, and remind children to use the toilet at home. When children go to kindergarten, they are in a strange environment and with strange people. They are worried about the child going to the toilet and dare not express it, for fear that the child will urinate.
When children first enter kindergarten, the cultivation of living habits, self-care ability, and the learning of life skills are the focus of children's learning at this time. For example, teachers will teach children a "universal sentence pattern": I want to...
The teacher will patiently teach every baby: when it’s time to pee, tell the teacher, “I want to pee”! He will also tell the children repeatedly through story picture books. After listening to the story, the teacher will ask in a gentle voice: "On the first day of kindergarten, the little monkey needs to go to the toilet. How does it do it?"
The children just asked He would answer the teacher in a flurry of words: "Raise your hands and say, Teacher, I want to go to the toilet."
The teacher will affirm and praise the children.
The teacher will organize the children to go to the toilet every once in a while and help the children. The children can adapt to these trainings after a week.
Even at the beginning, some children have not fully adapted to it. Occasionally they will wet their pants or poop. Parents, don’t worry. The teachers in the class will wipe the children clean and change them with clean ones, and will not criticize the children. What parents have to do is to put 1-2 pieces of changing pants in their children's schoolbags when they first enter kindergarten.
What is written at the back:
When children go to kindergarten, this is their first social stage in life. Adaptation requires a process, and it is normal for parents to worry. But the best love that parents have for their children is to let them go into the wider world to learn, exercise and adapt, so that their feathers can be full, their wings can be strong, and they can spread their wings and fly higher and higher!
My child is going to kindergarten. If you have any questions, please ask!
