One-year-old and two-year-old are cute, and three-year-old and four-year-old are cute. It means that children are very cute when they are 1-2 years old, but they are particularly annoying when they are 3-4 years old. Around this time last year, I often wanted to yell at Da Xun. He was procrastinating in everything he did. He had a bad temper and was impatient. He kept looking for someone to feed him when he was eating, and he ate very slowly. But as a parent, I couldn't bear to use the whip.
Later, I could only slowly guide him through various games, toys and communication, and it has been effective. Today, I held my sister's hand and walked around the park for more than half an hour.
Brother holds the sister's hand and goes to the park
A child is impatient and impatient, which may affect his future
As adults, we all know that impatient and impatient, prone to emotional instability, and throwing tantrums whenever something doesn't suit your mood, is a sign of low emotional intelligence. If a child continues to behave like this, he will gradually form a habit, which will make him have fewer and fewer friends around him, thus affecting his future growth; he may even fail to follow the rules or make violations because of his impatience. Things such as disobeying traffic rules, disobeying legal regulations, etc., make children more rebellious when they grow up.
Children with bad tempers tend to be rebellious.
Therefore, education must start from childhood. Children should not be overindulged just because they are still young. Children must learn to accept setbacks and cannot satisfy them anytime and anywhere. They must guide and communicate in the process. Exercise your child's patience, cultivate his independence, understand his own abilities, etc.; of course, as parents, we must also learn to encourage and help our children so that they can maintain the self-confidence they should have.
Encourage the child
For example, you can guide the child to clean up the toys together; or give the child a favorite toy, let him immerse himself in the entertainment of the toy, and appropriately extend and guide the child's patience, etc. (I bought finger paintings for Da Xun); Or teach him how to protect his sister when he goes out to play - holding his sister's hand without letting go, etc.;
Da Xun's paintings
As parents, we cannot treat our children like little ancestors because we dote on them. Appropriate setbacks can Let children learn more knowledge and understand themselves correctly. So, come and talk to me about how to control children’s impatience! ?
