When did your baby start to be "real"?
Recently, Tangtang's sensitivity to the sense of order has increased again. The first thing she wants to see when she opens her eyes is her mother or grandma. Anyone else would be hysterical. The first thing she does when she gets up in the morning is to open the curtains for him, otherwise she will still be there. Get angry and cry.
Many parents may have done their homework and know that this kind of "obsessive-compulsive disorder" starts in their children at a certain period. I just emphasize again that you should not think that everything has to wait until the age of 2. Regardless of whether you are an expert or have experience, you must put it to good use when it comes to your own children. Otherwise, if you doubt your life every minute, he will show you something special.
Wear your own clothes, climb the stairs by yourself, certain items must be placed in fixed places, must, must, must, many things must be done according to this little guy's requirements, and some requirements may seem insignificant to you, why is he so pretentious?
If you are experiencing this like me, then let me be clear, this is not the baby being unreasonable, willful, deliberately irritating you, yelling will not solve the problem, and this kind of unpleasant experience will cause some problems to the children in this special period. Injury and impact, children's order-sensitive period is earlier than you think.
Studies have proven that children have a preference for order earlier than we do, even from birth. They must have their own favorite way of sleeping, how to get along with their mother, and what kind of sleeping position is the most comfortable. We We all know how difficult it is to develop habits and how difficult it is to change them, let alone a baby. For this completely unfamiliar world, any "habit" will become an important part of establishing his sense of security, so acceptance and respect are the best things to give your child. Good help.
Use this sense of compulsion to help your child establish good daily habits. For example: if you ask him to pick up something, the more you emphasize, the more he throws it away, or ignores it. When he wants to tell a story or ask for other things, you can say, pick it up. Put away the toys. Mom, will you tell me a story? Let me see how great you are. In this case, 80% of the children will do it. Use good skills and reasonable "conditions" and everything will be just right. Place shoes and toys. You can use it to wash your face and brush your teeth at fixed points, tell stories, and establish a fixed bedtime routine. Do not force changes or stops. You must know that the stubbornness of this age group is much more stubborn than you think!
Well, I hope everyone can establish a better and better parent-child relationship and spend some quality time with your child. Don’t feel slow. In the blink of an eye, she is no longer the little beast who clings to you [silly laugh]
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