Good morning everyone, a new day has begun, nice to meet you!
For me, the thing I look forward to the most in a week is to receive a call from my child from school. I feel very happy when I hear his voice.
believes that all mothers have the same heart.
My child called me at a little after 10 o'clock last night, and his voice sounded very cheerful.
He talked about the school affairs in the past two days and the results of the high school entrance examination in two days. There was a sense of joy in his speaking speed.
I wonder if other parents would be like this?
Every time a child who lives in my house calls, I first quietly listen to the child’s voice to see if he is happy at school.
Then asked if you ate well and how did you sleep? In my dictionary, eating and sleeping are the most important things for a child in life.
Parents with children, do you think so too? After all, adolescence is a critical time for children to grow taller.
Every time I answer the phone, I ask about other things, except about studying.
I guess even now, my children are wondering, why?
Actually, I know in my heart that my children study every day in school and sit in the classroom for more than ten hours a day. They are already very tired.
Why disturb your child's mood when he calls?
Speaking of this adolescent child, countless mothers are really at a loss, and of course, I am too.
Sometimes, I’m pissed off enough.
From the time my child was in sixth grade, I felt that he was no longer as obedient as he was when he was a child, and began to contradict me.
There was nothing I could do at first. Sometimes I would scold him, but I was really angry.
Slowly I discovered that this was not the solution.
So, I tried to write letters to my children, because I have always had the habit of writing.
didn't expect it to work, I'm very excited.
Under certain circumstances, we may not be in a good mood at the time. If our children contradict us again, we will inevitably become overwhelmed with emotions.
This conflict broke out.
I feel much better since I started writing letters to communicate with my children.
I have summarized the following points:
First of all, when writing, people feel calmer and less anxious.
Secondly, when we write, the words we speak are much more tactful and the tone is not so stiff compared to talking directly to children face to face.
Finally, when writing, people have calmed down and become rational, and there is no emotional component anymore.
After having this magic weapon, the relationship between me and my children has become much more harmonious.
There are less conflicts in the house, and more cases of a loving mother and a filial son. Is
also the result you want?
Although, after my children entered junior high school, we sometimes had conflicts, and I would find ways to resolve them afterwards.
Either both sides calm down and have a long talk, or write a letter. What
wrote is nothing more than who made the mistake and who apologized, and where was the mistake? Try to speak nicely from now on.
Just like this, writing letters can be said to have solved too many conflicts between my children and me, and it has also made a certain contribution to the harmony of the family.
I have seen in too many families the various family conflicts that arise when children reach adolescence.
hopes that you can also give it a try and use letters with your children to resolve embarrassments and problems.
I personally think the effect is quite good, I hope you can also get what you want.
After all, family harmony and warmth are the best gifts for a child.
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