Have you ever been induced? Do you want to have a second child? How do you deal with birth? Now I am facing the pain of being induced by my own mother, and I don’t know what to do? My daughter is now one year and nine months old and looks very cute!

Have you ever had the experience of being induced? Do you want to have a second child? How do you deal with birth? Now I am facing the pain of being induced by my own mother, and I don’t know what to do?

My daughter is now one year and nine months old and looks very cute! My mother went to the hospital for a check-up last week. She found out that she had some minor health problems after taking a CT scan. She was very worried and anxious. She called my sister and told her that what she is most worried about now is that I will not have a second child. She hopes that I can If I have my second child as soon as possible, she can help me take care of the baby until he is about two years old, and then I can ask my mother-in-law to help me take care of it.

My mother was worried that my mother-in-law would not be able to take care of me during confinement and when the baby was young, so she could help me take care of it until I was one or two years old, and then give it to my mother-in-law. In fact, everyone in our family has different ideas about having a second child. My mother-in-law does not recommend that we have a second child because she thinks it is too hard to take care of a child. She thinks that having one child is enough, and it is not necessary to have another child. Regarding the second child, my husband wanted to listen to his mother, so he thought it was okay not to have a second child, but my mother insisted that I have a second child.

Because my mother also gave birth to three children, I have a sister, a brother, and me, three children. Although I work far away from home and am now settled in Hainan, my brother and sister are still in my hometown. . My sister and her parents live more than an hour's drive away. I can often go back to see my parents, stay with them, and take care of their parents' daily life. But I can only give them some money, so my mother I think that if we have a second child, the two children can take care of each other, and it will be better when we get older. Moreover, my brother and sister both gave birth to a second child, so my mother still insisted that I have a second child.

Speaking for myself, I am a teacher, and I also like children very much. I naturally like children, and I have a good rapport with children. Most children like me very much. When I reach out to hug other people’s children, the children will let me hold them. Some parents will also say that our children are very naive and usually don’t let others hug them. But it’s also strange why they would let you hold them. Woolen cloth?

I also want to have a second child, but I feel that having a child is too tiring, because in the end, the most painful and tiring one is myself. My husband and I live in different places. No matter how many children we have, it will not matter to him. Regardless of any influence, he can still work, work, eat, drink, and play when he should, but I will be in a state of dragging one behind the other. All the pressure, all the burdens and responsibilities will almost always be on me. On my own.

When the children are young, my mother-in-law can come and take care of them. When the children go to school, I may need to take care of them by myself. I have to go to work and take care of two children. I really feel that it will be extremely tiring, so I am still very confused and confused at the moment, should I have a second child?

In fact, our conditions are not bad for having a second child. My husband has an apartment and I have an apartment. We also have some savings, we have a car at home, and my parents-in-law have pensions. We don’t need to take care of them anymore. My parents have If I have a brother and a sister, and the three brothers and sisters come to take care of me, the pressure will not be too great. The most important thing is that my husband and I live in different places. When the time comes, my children's education, life, and everything will need to be taken care of by myself. I'm afraid that I won't be able to bear the pressure.

I feel envious when I see other people giving birth to their second child. When it’s my turn, I haven’t prepared myself mentally yet. Let me think about it again!

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