Some people say that pregnancy is a bright moment for a woman, because the expectant mothers at this stage are like a "family treasure", everyone in the family holds them in their palms, especially the expectant father, treats pregnant wives very well Heart. Of course, not every man is such a "model", and not every woman is so lucky.
Case: After pregnancy, the husband turned out to be a shopkeeper
I received a submission from a netizen two days ago. This netizen is an 8-month pregnant woman who has been pregnant since she became pregnant. I have suffered too many grievances, because there is nowhere to vent, so I can only submit articles online to complain about my husband. In the words of the pregnant mother, "If it weren't for the child in the belly, I might have divorced her husband." Let this pregnant mother be Xiaolin for the time being, and then listen to her story.
In the first trimester, Kobayashi’s morning sickness was very serious. At that time, he didn’t eat much for two consecutive days. The whole person was very unwell. Suddenly he wanted to eat something sour. So Kobayashi asked her husband to buy something sour, but the husband said , is now more than eight o'clock late, and I will have to eat tomorrow when I come back from get off work.
Kobayashi didn’t say anything at the time, but until the next day, her husband came back empty-handed. When waited for Kobayashi’s question, her husband just said indifferently: “Forgot _ strong13strong", then immersed in the game.
In the second trimester, Kobayashi or calcium deficiency is more serious. She woke up with leg cramps during sleep earlier. will make her husband unhappy every time she gets up, and even later on this matter with her Quarrel and sleep in separate rooms. Because of her pregnancy, Xiao Lin quit her job to raise a baby at home, and her belly gradually grew. Many families can’t do it.When her husband came back and saw a house that was not as clean and tidy as before, would blame Kobayashi for being pregnant, so he became squeamish and didn't like to do anything.
There are too many small facts like this. After reading it, I feel distressed for this girl. If my mother's family knows that her daughter has been treated this way, what kind of mood it should be!
all say that pregnancy is the best time to test whether a man really loves you. It is true, so how to judge at this stage? You can look down.
Did Bao Dad do these things for you during pregnancy? Some are embarrassed. It is true love to be able to do it.
If your husband is pregnant, is willing to become a "runner" for you, indicating that he really cares about you. Just like Xiaolin’s husband, his wife wanted to eat something sour at night. Although it was the evening, it was only after eight o’clock. It was very convenient to go out to buy. However, he dealt with it in a few words and forgot the next day. It shows that he is really careless about his wife.
A man who really cares, no matter how late, as long as you want to eat, he will buy it, and even if he can’t buy it, he will make it for you himself. If there is really no way, he will remember it at other times, and then buy it back for you to eat, this is the performance of putting a person in his heart. In addition, not only in this aspect, some pregnant mothers find it inconvenient to have a big belly after pregnancy, so they don’t like to walk around, so they always send their husbands to get things. Those who love you will do these little things for you. .
The husband who loves you will also hold back your "physical needs" for you. Women are pregnant for ten months. During this period, men will definitely have needs, but if they really love you, they will hold back their own needs. , Will not make excessive demands on his wife, even in the second trimester,They will hold back for the safety of you and the fetus. Although this is embarrassing, men who truly love you will control themselves for you.
There is another kind of husband who is very heart-warming, that is, after you are pregnant, afraid that you will always think about it, will chat with you, continue to enlighten you, and actively report to you many things. Because after pregnancy, many pregnant mothers are affected by hormone changes in the body, which lead to poor moods, and they are always easy to think about it by themselves. At this time, the caring husband will often notice this and take the initiative to do it with his wife. Communicate, let them rest assured and at ease.
When they are free, they will take their wives out to relax, go to various fun places, and regulate their wives' emotions. Some husbands also help to massage, rub shoulders, and waist when their wives are uncomfortable, hoping that the pain of their wives can be relieved. When you can't sleep at night, they will also sacrifice sleep time to spend the long night with you, so that you can fall asleep better.
If the husband returns home after work and helps with housework in his spare time, this is also a rare good man. Because very few men take the initiative to do housework, but if true Love you, they will also be reluctant to wash the dishes, mopping the floor, washing clothes, etc. with their big belly, usually they will tell their wife not to do these trivial things, and wait for him to come home from get off work to do it. Although they may not be doing so well, but with this heart, it means that they really love you very much, and you are really married to the right person, married to happiness.
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