Author: Dad
Introduction
In this society, competitiveness is the core of whether a person can gain a foothold in the society.
Therefore, how to cultivate children's "competitiveness" has naturally become the top priority of parent education.
In the eyes of parents, if you want your children to be "competitive", it is to let your children have multiple skills. That's why some parents are going crazy. Regardless of the financial burden of the family, they are desperately enrolling their children in "interest classes", "Training classes", but in fact, is it true for parents to do this?
How to cultivate children's "competitiveness"?
Nowadays, there are too many parents who start to control their children's "play" time, thinking that children are wasting time and wasting their own future by playing, but is this really the case?
Ma Yun once said: culture is a play, and children who can play, children who can play, and children who want to play will have a lot of prospects .
This sentence is not nonsense. For children, playing is the most intuitive way to learn, and children who know how to play are destined to be very competitive in the future, so they sometimes "play" Children are more creative.
Children's educator Madrids once published an article, which roughly means: When children learn to observe, recognize, and understand during exercise and play, they are the keys to the development of children's brain intelligence .
Not only foreign educators have released opinions on children’s education, but also Mr. Lu Xun of our country once mentioned in " Kite": games are the most legitimate behavior of children, and toys are still children’s hearts. "Angel".
So from all the signs,Cultivating children's "competitiveness" is not about kidnapping children by "learning", but by "playing" to liberate children.
In the eyes of parents, "playing" may be a waste of time, but in the eyes of children it is indeed a way to explore the world.
Because parents and children have different perspectives and thinking directions, in the eyes of parents, children playing with mud and toys are very "naive" actions, but for children, they are a way to develop thinking and enhance competitiveness. .
"Playing" is the core to enhance children's competitiveness
Don't underestimate "playing". Play is very helpful to the growth of children. Elkind, an American second-child development expert, said: " "Play" is a way for children to learn. If they do not "play", then children will lack many learning opportunities.
In fact, the so-called "prodigy" in our country are not how strict education they have received since childhood, but their parents know how to educate.
Stopping children’s "playing" is equivalent to breaking the connection between the brain and the outside world. When children look at boring books every day, when children listen to content beyond their age, this can really help the growth of children. Is it beneficial?
These contents not only will not make children interested in learning, but also affect children's attention and even the desire to go to school in the future.
Brain scientist Hong Lan Professor : There are three enlightenment magic weapons for children's brain development: exercise, reading and games .
Is there no learning here? Even reading is based on children's interests, reading content that children are interested in.
In other words, parents prohibiting children from playing games are affecting their children's future competitiveness and the development of their brains.
There is a report abroad that clearly shows that in the past 30 years, children’s "playing" time has been reduced by 25%.However, more and more children use electronic devices and are forced to learn by their parents.
This is not helping children, but harming them. Reasonable and healthy "playing" is the basis for children to build core competitiveness. Therefore, if you want to cultivate children's "competitiveness", then Let the children "play" and use the correct way to "play".
End
How to cultivate children's "competitiveness"?
This is a question that many parents are thinking about, but they ignore the most important way, which is "play".
Most parents think that "playing" is useless and even delays the child. In fact, the correct "playing" is the key to educating children, cultivating children's competitiveness, and opening their children's brains.
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