When a child is bullied, should he be taught to fight back?

01. What should I do if my child is bullied?

What should I do if my child is bullied outside?

is to let the child swallow? Or is it to teach children how to treat their own body? It is the parents who replace their children to call back...

I believe that many parents will have a headache when faced with such problems.

Before, a mother in Wuhan posted on the forum:

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After a while, his child was pushed down by the child again and hit the back of his head ↓↓↓

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At this time,The parents of the two sides quarreled...

"They have been condemning me on the grounds that the child is young, his child is ignorant, and the slapstick is normal, and I am an adult who shouldn’t spank his child’s ass. It’s an excuse not to bring two children over.

I hit his child’s ass because they didn’t come in in time to apologize, and they didn’t come in to stop his child when he pushed another child for the first time. From the attitude of the other parent’s treatment of their children pushing other children, it can also be seen that they have not strictly disciplined their children’s preference for pushing others. I don’t know if I did it right or wrong, but I don’t regret it..."

At the bottom of the post, many people have expressed their opinions. Most people think that parents should not do it, but should teach their children the truth and let the children solve it by themselves.

Such things are not uncommon. There used to be a topic in the education circle:

"If your child is beaten by another child, what would you do to ?" has a lot of debates, and the most impressive are the four viewpoints:

tell the elders in a suitable way.

Try to avoid frontal conflicts.

If it's not a big deal, you must know how to suffer.

call it back.

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thinks in favor of calling back:

"Don't be afraid of those who bully and fear hard, call back to show that you are not weak. _span4pspan _span4pspan 1

and those who agree to tell the teacher think:

Although some teachers do not do well, don't give up telling the teacher and believe that the teacher has the ability to solve the problem.

Then,What should we do when a child is bullied?

02. After being bullied, should I fight back?

I remember when Damai was a child, the average parent would say:

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"Why did they beat you? Did you provoke others."

But now parents' views on this issue have obviously changed compared with the past.

A kindergarten in Sichuan conducted a survey on "children being bullied, how should parents respond";

The results show that about 60% of parents said they would "fight back."

In a variety show, the star Liu Yun dealt with this problem,I chose:

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She also shared an example of her granddaughter being injured and "beating back" when she went to kindergarten.

Why do you want to fight back if you are bullied?

Professor Meijin Li said:

"If the bullied child does not return,Those bear kids who bully others will bully others over and over again, because it is fun. "

is not only an adult, but a child even more so:

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Of course, we must pass on the concept of "justice defense" to children, not "tooth for tooth".

We especially want to tell children not to bully other children just because they are being bullied.

In this regard, Professor Li Meijin also gave parents a trick in "Speaking" ↓↓↓ _p7span strong span4span _p1span 4

Parents must tell their children what they can do and what they can’t do, and they must not bully the children with big things.

2. Let children learn to protect themselves

Children must have physical exercises.If there is exercise, there is explosive power, and explosive power is not easy to be bullied. If a child never exercises and does not have a strong physique, he can easily be pushed down. Next time, others will push him because it is fun.

If the other person does have a big difference in size from your own child, you can't fight back rashly. You can tell your child to stay away from those who like to bully.

Let's not play with rude and savage children.

The famous Hong Kong entrepreneur Li Ka-shing once accepted an interview, in which he said something like this:

"I tell my grandson to be merciful if I can do it" You will succeed!

Kindness is nature. You are usually kind, but your business cannot be successful if you are kind, and you have to make money rationally in addition to being legal.

But if people are not good, the lion has the ability to resist. I want to be a human being.

Parents have to tell their children,The world not only has fairy tale beauty, but also contradictions and conflicts.

You can be a kind person, but kindness does not mean weakness. When someone invades you, you must be brave to protect yourself!

Dear moms and dads, if your children are subjected to violence or unfair treatment, what will you do?

speak your views in the message area, and look forward to your wisdom to share~↓↓↓