The year 2022 is already halfway over. How have you accomplished the goals you vowed to set at the beginning of the year? Is
invincible along the way, or is he at a loss?
Whether you are tired, tired, or confused, please stop and read these 8 sentences.
Those who ride the wind and waves will go on with more determination and confidence.
There is no need to be discouraged if it is temporarily stranded. There is still time for everything.
1. Effort means just going all out and not "adding fuel and jealousy" to your thoughts.
You cannot do things without considering the results, but if you are too concerned about gains and losses, you will easily be timid. Either you are worried that you have made a mistake and cannot end it, or you are worried that you have not done well enough to make a difference.
If you waste time and energy on success or failure, you will reduce your focus on doing things, and you will achieve nothing in the end.
Most successful people have the quality of going forward and going all out when they decide.
You must know that nothing in this world can be achieved overnight. Repeated adjustments and corrections on the road to success are an indispensable link.
2. In fact, if you are truly talented, luck is not that important.
Some people achieve nothing, but they are accustomed to blaming luck. Because of bad luck, no one appreciates them.
However, in today's society, it is rare that "talents are not recognized" anymore. Most of the "talents are not recognized" are actually insufficient talents.
If you like reading and are sensitive to words, you can try writing. More and more people rely on writing to change their destiny; if you are a life expert and willing to share, you can become a blogger. Nowadays, Internet celebrities are The momentum remains high; if you are good at writing and have unique insights, you can teach online. Nowadays, the requirements for writing are getting higher and higher...
In short, as long as you have a skill and are willing to continue to cultivate it, Life has its moments when it blossoms and bears fruit.
Good luck will not come to anyone for no reason. It is more like the icing on the cake, rather than a free hand.
3. Countless people fail because they do not do things thoroughly. They often stop just one step away from success.
In the TV series "Welcome", the doorman Zhang Guangzheng has been secretly in love with Zheng You for a long time. When he finally got Zheng Youen's favor after all his efforts, he chose to retreat because of his low self-esteem.
He felt that he was useless. No matter how hard he tried, he would be far away from her life in the end. Because of this idea, he even gave up the promotion exam that he had been preparing for for a long time.
Later, when he regained his confidence and rushed towards Zheng Youen, it was because of what an old man said: If you don’t look back, success will be your destiny.
Yes, many things cannot be judged as success or failure until the end, but if you give up midway, the outcome is destined to be failure.
As the saying goes: Do good deeds without asking about the future.
Once you have identified your goal, you should never look back.
4. Only those who know that their wisdom is worthless are the wisest people.
A philosopher once compared knowledge to a circle. The less you know, the smaller the circle is, and the less contact you have with the unknown outside world. In this small circle, you feel as if you know everything.
On the contrary, the more knowledge people have, the larger the circle they are in, and the more contact they have with the unknown outside world, the more they will feel ignorant.
In life, it is not difficult for us to find that the more shallow people are, the more arrogant they are, and the more knowledgeable people are, the more humble they are.
Arrogant people will become more and more ignorant, while humble people will become wiser as they live.
In this life, people need to admit their own insignificance in order to make themselves stronger and stronger.
5. The real quality of life is to return to yourself, clearly measure your own abilities and conditions, and pursue the best things and life under these limited conditions.
If you want to pursue a quality life, you must first have requirements for yourself and life.
But if the requirements are too high and beyond your capabilities, it will only make you more and more miserable.
People can't live like salted fish, but they can't aim too high either.
Understand yourself correctly, find your strengths, avoid your weaknesses, and do your best within your ability.
A quality life is not about living better than others, but about living the most comfortable life within the scope of one's control.
6. The antonym of anxiety is concreteness. When you step on that specific path and move forward step by step, you will no longer have this anxiety.
When you are studying, you are worried that you will not get the ideal grades; when you are working, you are worried that you will not be able to take on difficult projects; when you are in love, you are worried that you are not good enough to keep the lover in front of you; after getting married, you are worried If you can't give your family a better life... in the end, you will find that you will be anxious all your life.
In fact, anxiety is just your own random thoughts, and its "nemesis" is hard work.
If you imagine the worst outcome ten thousand times in your mind, it is better to save your energy and work hard once.
Life will not disappoint a person who works hard, but it will definitely make a person who only knows anxiety become more anxious.
7. Maybe you feel like you are out of tune with the people around you, but it is the time you spend alone that makes you more and more interesting. When others finally notice you one day, they will find someone bigger than they imagined. Cooler people.
Don’t be afraid of those times alone, it can be a weapon for you to continuously polish yourself.
When you read, you are enriching your mind; when you travel, you are broadening your horizons; even if you do nothing, just having a good sleep will make you energetic.
Don’t worry about wasting your time when you are alone. In fact, you are most afraid of being bored when you are alone.
On the contrary, those who like liveliness are not sure whether they are really happy when it is lively, but after the excitement, most people will feel empty and helpless.
Because they don't really spend time on themselves and don't know what they really want.
8. Happiness as a child is a thing, and you will be happy if you have it; happiness when you grow up is a goal, and you will be happy when you achieve it; happiness when you grow up is a state of mind, and you will be happy if you understand it.
Children's happiness is the simplest. Having the toys they dream of and eating colorful candies will make them happy all day long. When they are young, they start to have goals to strive for. When they achieve their goals, they will feel that they are a great person. , happiness is a full sense of accomplishment; as an adult, you will find that life is not a circle, it is just infinitely close to a circle. Once you get close to the apex, you will start again.
At that time, you will understand that a happy life is a state of mind. There is no absolute happiness, and there is no absolute pain. Extreme joy will cause sadness, and pain will also bring new growth.
Some people say that life is an experience.
Some people have seen a lot as they walked and found their own path.
And some people just go with the flow, busy when things come and empty when things go. They act as the background when there is noisy time, and realize the nothingness after silence.
Haizi once said, when you come to the world, you have to look at the sun.
Only by living clearly in this life can you look back and find that the good and the bad were all worth it.
In the second half of 2022, I hope that the waves in your heart are not calmed down, and you are full of power, raise your whip, and sing all the way!
