When you donât have a house, a house is the best; when you have no money, money is the best; when you are leaving, getting together is the best; when you are sick, health is the best; when you are lonely, companionship is the best. Life is like this, there are gains and losses, gatherings and separations. Don't envy others, don't compare success, don't care about effort, just let nature take its course and be content with the situation.
Life will not change because of your complaints; life will not change because of your melancholy. Whether you complain or not, life remains the same; whether you worry or not, life remains the same. If you complain too much, you will be worried about yourself. If you feel melancholy too much, you will be the one who suffers. If you cry, life will not shed tears; if you suffer, life will not cause worries. In that case why not smile? In this case, why feel melancholy? Life is a lifetime of happiness, and a lifetime of sorrow, so why not be happy!
In this life, making yourself happy is more important than anything else. Life is short, and the first thing is to make yourself happy. Happy people don't care too much and don't care about other people's opinions. They only do things they like and don't change themselves to cater to others. Such people are often more likely to be happy. And those who complain all day long will definitely not be happy in life, because they always think about how to make themselves better off, but never consider the feelings of others.
Coaxing oneself to be happy is a kind of ability and a choice. When a person reaches middle age, learning to make oneself happy is also a kind of happiness. When you reach middle age, don't push yourself too hard, learn to relax and live a little easier, so that you can face life better and enjoy life better.
Do what you do now, cherish the people in front of you, and live the short and impermanent time carefully into inch after inch of lasting tenderness. Everyone is a special flower. It can grow as long as it wants. It does not have to grow into a rose. Even if the whole world is expecting me to grow into a rose, I still hope that I can be myself without being disturbed by anyone. The rest of life is short, and the important thing is not that the road is smooth and the sun is shining brightly, but that even if there are many thorns, you can heal through self-regulation and grow up amidst worries and trivialities.
Life is about coaxing yourself, convincing yourself, everything is solved, live well, love yourself well, lower your expectations and become less dependent, you will live a better life. We must learn to be kind to ourselves, don't always be angry, don't always be sad, people, every day is less, and in the end you will have nothing, why do you make yourself so hard? Itâs also a day to be happy, and itâs also a day to be unhappy. Why think about happy things when youâre unhappy? Your mood is your wealth, and your mood determines the quality of your life, so don't always embarrass yourself or others.
For the rest of your life, please learn to be kind to yourself, invest in yourself, make yourself happy in the way you like, and give yourself comforting hugs. In this life, pleasing yourself is more important than anything else. Be a simple person and live the rest of your life happily!
