Author/Rainpair and clear love fragrance (Henan Yu Xiaohe)
Time flies, time passes, autumn is about to end in a blink of an eye, and I can't help but exclaim: "Where has time gone?"
Yes, time is passing quietly, sliding down our fingertips, passing through our lives, and I don't know where it has gone.
When people reach middle age, they will understand that time cannot be kept, and many people and things cannot be kept. We are finally moving further and further on the road of life, and the gains and losses have changed.
When people reach middle age, they will understand that only by living a good life can they live happily!
——Yu Xiaohe Preface
01. When we survive life is not easy, we will live the life we want
late autumn is cold, but there will be warm sunshine and lush flowers and plants.
In the afternoon, the sun is just right and warms the world. In this quiet moment, sitting on the balcony to admire the flowers and plants is also a pleasure. Most of the plants I raise are succulent because I like the tenacity of succulent.
I am very glad that I was not knocked down by the sufferings of life back then, and finally survived the painful days like succulent plant ; I am very glad that I did not give up my love for life; I am very glad that after I worked alone for more than ten years, I finally bought a house.
No one can empathize with the hardships and sorrows in it, only one can experience it personally. But I never regret my choice.
Because, since then, I have a home that can shelter me from the wind and rain, and I no longer have to wander around like an duckweed .
Yaolu said: "Life cannot be waited for others to arrange, you have to fight and struggle on your own; no matter whether the result is joy or sorrow, it can be comforted that you will not live in this world in vain. With such an understanding, you will cherish life without being cynical; at the same time, you will inject a powerful inner strength into yourself."
Yes, there are many unpredictable sufferings in life, but we must take the helm of our destiny in our own hands; life will also have many hardships, but we must find a way to fight.
When we survive the dark pain, we will see the meaning of life; when we survive the difficult life, we will live the life we want.
02. We must work hard for our lives, even if we swallow more bitterness
In this world, many people live hard, and go for survival and work hard for life.
Perhaps sometimes, we will also be upset about why there are so many hardships in life? Perhaps sometimes, we also question why life is so bitter?
Yes! This is life, the road ahead is long and the ups and downs; this is life, the trivialities of daily life, the ups and downs. Even if this is the case, what can we do? You have to make your own choices in your life and you have to work hard on your own life.
Lu Yao said: "In fact, each of our lives is a world. Even the most ordinary people must strive for the world they live in."
When people live, they must be like a tree, keeping their original intentions when the flowers are blooming, and silently accumulating strength when the prosperity falls. Don’t be afraid of the ups and downs of life, and don’t be afraid of the hardships of life.
Everyone’s life is unique, and everyone’s life is their own choice.
We must fight for our own life, and no matter how much burden we bear in life, we must forge ahead; we must work hard for our own life, and no matter how much bitterness we swallow, we must live towards the sun.
03. Adhere to truth, goodness and beauty, and live a life that suits you
Someone left a message under my article: "Don't eat or drink to cultivate yourself, do you improve yourself?"
What I want to say is that cultivating yourself is not about not eating or drinking, but about forging ahead in the storms of life and cultivating your state of mind in the hardships of life.
Why are we living? Isn’t it just for a better life? Life is about food, clothing, housing and transportation. First of all, you can save your life by eating well. Secondly, you can dress well and live well, and then you can pursue your dreams and walk the path you want to go.
Of course, every pursuit of life and yearning for life are different.The key is to find a life that suits you and live the life you like.
Writer Lin Yutang said: "Everything that life needs is not expensive, simplicity; it is not rich, politeness; it is not expensive, esthetic; it is not expensive, essaying it is suitable."
Xiaohe thinks that writer Lin Yutang said it very well, and it is also the life I yearn for.
I always believe that life does not need to be full of flowers, just live a simple life; life does not require delicacies, just be hungry for three meals a day.
In short, I will not lose my dignity in order to pursue the prosperity of life, nor will I lose my bottom line in order to live a wealthy life. I will stick to truth, goodness and beauty and live a life that suits me.
04. May you have a heart that loves life, full of joy
A friend said, "I admire my savings in spending money, and I admire my strong enough."
What I want to say is that life does not require extravagance, just love it sincerely with your heart. And everyone's strength is the rebirth after being penetrated by thousands of arrows.
No one is born strong, and no one doesn’t like a comfortable life. Being strong is because no one can bear the burden of life for us, and savings are because we want to spend money on the blade.
Life is a peaceful and smooth life is also happiness; life is a simple and simple life is also happiness. The key is to adjust your mindset and cultivate yourself.
Lin Weiyin said: "The most beautiful thing about life is to live ordinary fireworks into exquisiteness, so that every ordinary day is filled with joy!"
Everyone's life is different, this is your yearning and choice.
Our yearning for life will determine our choices, and our choices will also determine our lives. Xiaohe thinks it is good to be able to live an ordinary life. She goes all out when she is busy, cooks tea and talks about life when she is free, or takes care of flowers and plants. This kind of life is also good.
May you choose a life that suits you and strive for it; may you have a heart that loves life and be filled with joy!
text: The rain is filled with fragrance of lotus. Another pseudonym: Yu Xiaohe
Picture source: Internet, thank you!
