In this life, some people live for others to see, and some people always live like themselves.
No matter how we work hard or work hard, it is impossible to satisfy everyone.
Then let yourself go, and in your limited time and ability, just be the best yourself!
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Just do your best
In life, as long as things go wrong, there are so many worries and sorrows.
Sometimes, we try to change the original appearance of the world with our own strength, but in the end you find that you are not the omnipotent Sun Wukong , nor is the savior to save the world, you are just an ordinary person.
Overestimate yourself and often brings unnecessary trouble to yourself. This world will continue if you leave it. Only your relatives, without you, will they be heartbroken.
Sometimes, you think a smooth road is leading to the distance you yearn for, but this road can bring you not only the world of fame and fortune, but also the hidden dangers of trouble, pressure, and health. What's more, you may embark on a path of no return.
Many times, if you cannot do things, you should leave room and opportunities for others. If you cannot predict the future, live in the present.
Try your best, take care of it, and experience it, it is enough. All else is left to time, and time will give you a perfect answer.
——Be alive, just try your best.
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Just do your best
You have intersections with many people, and you may not be able to help everyone you identify with if you exhaust your experience and resources.
Relatives, friends, family, children, colleagues, best friends, buddies, etc., never retreat when you can help, and learn to let go of yourself when you can’t help, which is also a kind of dedication.
When others are in trouble, the hands that stretch out are a timely help. When others don’t need it, you try your best to please and help, which is annoying.
helps you when it is appropriate, and exits unnecessary requests when it is inappropriate, in order not to make things difficult for yourself.
Everyone has their own life, and everyone has their own principles of doing things. Your goodness must be used on the blade so that the cut meat can taste delicious and can also make the meat eaters grateful.
For anyone's request, you must learn to take care of your life first, and then do your best. Because, helping others is friendship, not helping because there is no obligation.
—For anyone, just do your best.
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Just adapt to
I am used to comfortable life, and suddenly someone broke this balance. Your complaints, hostility, slackness, and even hatred are useless. Everything has its own laws of operation. 's law of conservation has always existed.
Learn to adapt and change in any environment, and learn to be able to be yourself seriously in the face of all environments, rather than others' vassals.
Don’t try to change things that have become a foregone conclusion. Man conquers nature and seems to inspire fighting spirit, but it is because you have made enough efforts and changes.
What others see is the result of a moment, only you know what it is to drip water wears away a stone and sharpen a sword for ten years.
The journey of life is not always unchanging, but seeking opportunities in change at all times.
So, just adapt to anyone's sense of affairs.If you really can't adapt, then let yourself go and seek new hope and a way out.
—Just adapt to changes in the environment and personnel.
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Just go with the flow
Forcing the gains in everything will eventually be taken away.
For one thing, a person, an emotion, a position, etc., you must be indifferent to gain and loss.
is yours, and it will be yours after all, not yours, and you cannot force it. As long as you have worked hard, loved, possessed, increased your knowledge and experience in the stories you yearn for, everything is a reward and a good medicine for you to ripen quickly.
You must remember that only those who follow the circumstances can be at ease, and those who are at ease can be at ease. Only those who can still be as calm as before after all the baptisms of various worldly things are wise. If you can't do all this, don't make any more money for anything.
A short life is just a few decades of time. A vigorous and vigorous is a kind of life, and a plainness is also a kind of life. Look at the world, no matter how arrogant people are, they will eventually return to the peace of time.
So, when you are alive, right or wrong, love or hate are not important, just go with the flow.
——A story of life, just follow the circumstances.
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Just look down on it
No matter how big a house is, it cannot hold a greedy heart; no matter how comfortable the bed is, it cannot lie down a heart that is anxious and insomnia even if it is windy.
Things you like, do your best, and do your best to be dispensable, and take it lightly.
A person is determined all day long and will inevitably become a secular villain.
A person wants to be the first in everything and does not leave room for others. In fact, he is cutting off his own way out.
No matter how strong a person is, he will be tired, and no matter how omnipotent a person is, he will be helpless.
Make yourself happy is a kind of ability. The root of happiness lies in taking it lightly.
—A thing that is not satisfactory, just take it lightly.
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Just face it
Who is not a sage? After knowing that you have made mistakes, people who can know and correct mistakes have the best qualities.
Most feared those who know that they are wrong, but still pretend to be confused, don’t change, and don’t admit it. Such people have far better face and vanity than right and wrong themselves.
In interpersonal communication, the understanding of wrong things is often a sign of measuring a person's quality. Forgive others' mistakes sometimes not because of your weakness and incompetence, but because your mind is enough to hold the sun and the moon.
In fact, everyone is making mistakes, and everyone is growing constantly on the road to making mistakes and correcting them.
Today, you can regret many of the wrong things you have done, it doesn’t get in the way. If you see your mistakes clearly, you will have confidence and hope only when you move forward.
Face every blind spot in your heart and admit that you are not satisfied and failing is also a compulsory course in our life.
—Faced your heart and face it.
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Just be optimistic
Lin Qingxuan said:
Nine out of ten people who are not satisfied in life, but you should always think about it.
How can everything go well in life? More often than not, we should always think about one or two things that are good. Only in this way can we know how to cherish and live well in the present.
Don’t complain about the injustice of life or the fate of Du Jie. The existence of every experience is the cause planted by your own actions.
The most important thing is that we cannot go back to the beginning in complaining, nor can we feel the beauty in complaining.
People's lives need sunshine and have always been haze. Over time, they will get sick.
Think about the problem from another perspective, and everything can be solved.
—When you are in a ill mood, just be optimistic.
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Just put it down
What the world can carry is family affection, and as for the rest, it is nothing more than anything else.
Don’t carry too many things on your body, as people who carry the weight will have a lot of hard work.
It is better to let go of things that you don’t bring in life and death; it is better to stay away from people who are dispensable; the love you want to get is useless if it does not belong to you; the end of a relationship is not others, but yourself.
Love and hate are twin brothers. It is very easy to produce hatred from love, but it is too difficult to produce love from hate. In the present of life, let yourself go!
Many stories, don’t wait, you must grasp the present. If you have the opportunity, go out and have a broader horizon, you will naturally not mind too many trivial matters.
Sometimes, all your worries come from being too small. The situation is big, I won’t mind anything.
Don’t be in trouble with yourself. Let yourself go, you don’t have to satisfy everyone.
Only after death do you realize that everything is empty. Just look at it and let go of everything.
—Just let go of all worries.
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Just as simple
You are kind to be good, but you cannot resist the complexity and change of human nature.
Many times, you have learned complexity in your interactions with others, but you have always advocated simplicity.
You long for the true feelings in a sentence, you long for the sincerity in something, and you also long for everyone in the long river of time...
Learn to be yourself! No matter whether others live in complexity or simple life, you first skip other people's horizons and live as you want to be.
Simplely be a person and do things happily. Survive with a different mindset and forgive the bad things of this world. You must remember that the most successful thing for a person’s life is to live your life the way you like.
In fact, in this life, what other major things are there in a person besides life and death? If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and you will be able to achieve happiness.
—Just as simple.
