The truth about human nature 1:
If you are not drunk with alcohol, it is because you drink less
To convince people with virtue, that is because you cannot win.
If you are not obsessed with sex, that is because you cannot touch it.
Indifferent to fame and fortune, that is because you really have no Recruitment
You are talking about letting go and have experienced it before you are qualified to talk about it. Don’t put yourself so high and mighty. One moment your life is like a dream, and the next moment everything is empty. Be practical and make more money. Be pragmatic. Points are better than anything else. Before you fulfill the responsibility of financial freedom for your children and parents, don’t give me useless things.
Human nature truth two:
It is normal for the world to be unfair. You will be angry because of unfairness. Is that because you must not be the recipient of the benefits?
If you are a person, there will be people cheering and cheering you wherever you go. If you are a waste, there will be people looking down at you wherever you go. Anyone who complains about unfairness is because you are a weak person.
Human nature truth three:
Why there is always a small group of people who are jealous of you? It is because you are only a little better than them, but they can still get you, so they will mess with you overtly and covertly, and push you down. Pull!
If one day you are much stronger than him, he will start to admire you and be proud of you. He will treat you as a god-like friend. He will be careful in what he says and does, for fear that he will miss something or something. If things don't go well, I worry about offending you.
Human Nature Truth 4:
The key to preventing your feelings from being hurt is: Don’t focus all your feelings on one person. Always observe whether you are invested in your feelings and to what extent. If you find You have invested 100 degrees, and quickly cool yourself down. 60 degrees is too cold, 90 degrees is too hot, and 80 degrees is the only way to protect yourself.
If you love someone very much, you must learn to do subtraction. You can raise a pot of flowers or Get a dog, or make a few close friends of the same sex to spread your energy to other things, and you won't have so much pain.
Human nature truth 5:
If you want a person of the opposite sex to like you, the best way is to stay mysterious and calm so that the other person does not feel that you like him, so that he will become curious about you instead.
The more confident people are, the less they care. The more people worry about gains and losses, the more they will cherish it. In psychology, this is called the curiosity effect.
The truth about human nature 6:
When you meet a person who only wants to make money, he must have a story, not because he likes money, nor because of how realistic he is. On the contrary, this kind of person often used to be The most emotional
is only when he treats everyone around him sincerely, but what he gets in return is betrayal and hurt, because when you are so poor that only love is left, you will find that no one in this world loves you at all
Only then will you fully understand that no matter how big someone else’s roof is, it’s not as good as having your own umbrella. Don’t just muddle along in your own comfortable life, because the person who can protect you from the wind and rain will one day make you invisible!
Truth about human nature 7:
You think some people’s words are hurtful and you think they have low emotional intelligence. In fact, you are wrong. He just doesn’t want to respect you.
This is not how he treats important people at all. Everyone around you treats you the same way. Attitudes are given and taught by you. The reason why others don't respect you is either because you are too weak or because you have no bottom line!
Truth of Human Nature 8:
People who can make irresponsible remarks about you behind your back are people who are worse off than you, people who are better than you. They have no time to talk about you at all, so don’t let anyone gossip about you. Rumors and sadness
Being alone is to avoid acting with others, not to argue is to let go of my heart, staying away is the greatest contempt for those who hurt me, you may not like me, but I am super satisfied with myself, bearish on life and death, and refuse to accept it. Just do it.
Human nature truth 9:
Never say whether others are loyal or not. There is no absolute loyalty in this world. To put it bluntly, when there is no light around you, even your shadow will betray you!
Loyalty depends on the bargaining chips in your hand. Sometimes people don’t want to be kidnapped by morals and . In fact, it’s the same for everyone. It’s the same for me and the same for you. I don’t want to say that I am a loyal person. I want to see if the chips you gave me are correct.
Let me give you an example:
Suppose I am an employee of your family. When I came here, I was really a novice. I didn’t understand anything. A rookie has no ability.
But as time goes by, my experience becomes more and more. I am getting richer and richer, my abilities are getting stronger, my connections are getting more and more established, and my desires are getting more and more expanded. However, my income has not increased according to my abilities.
Then at this time, as me You boss, you didn’t see it, but your competitors in the same industry did. So, for example, I only earned an annual salary of 500,000 yuan a year when I was with you. However, when my competitors saw that I was capable, they wanted to poach me. If they offered me an annual salary of 550,000 yuan, Ask me if I can leave?
Then I will definitely not leave. I told myself, hey, I am a person with a conscience, I am a loyal person, and I am a grateful person. Don’t talk nonsense to me.
Okay, let’s go together at this time. Give me 600,000 and ask me if I can leave? I said I wouldn’t leave, but in fact I couldn’t sleep anymore.
Okay, my colleague gave me 700,000 yuan and asked me if I could leave? I feel very guilty. With infinite nostalgia for my boss and gratitude for the past, I bow to you deeply and sadly. I say to you, boss, thank you for providing the platform and thank you for cultivating me during these years.
Then, I will turn around and leave you reluctantly, but if your colleagues give me 900,000 at this time, I may not even have that guilt left, and I will calmly feel that I left because: my boss You don't know how to appreciate me, you are too stingy!
Well, my colleagues will give me 1 million. Haha, even if my parents block my way, they have to step aside for me. Don’t stop me from getting rich!
So, let me tell you, people must cultivate each other's irreplaceability in each other's minds throughout their lives!
Loyalty depends on the bargaining chip in your hand, which is your irreplaceability. If everyone understands this, then you will know that the people who have left you and the people who have hurt you are all because you have nothing to do with them. Equivalent value chips, they choose to abandon you! hurt you!
The truth about human nature 10:
Why can’t you make money even though you work hard?
Because you are too soft-hearted and emotional, you always like to consider others and ignore your own needs. It is difficult for you to speak up when faced with interests. When faced with pressure from others, you have no bottom line to give in.
The result is time and time again. If you are injured, if you want to make money, you must be ruthless and principled. You can give more to others, but they cannot ask for more. If you take the initiative to give him more, he will be grateful for your kindness, and he will take the initiative to ask for it from you. This is a threat!
Don’t complain every day about why you don’t do as well as others. The reason is very simple. Others like to use their brains when doing things, but you always like to use your heart.
