Tolstoy once pointedly said, "People often want to express themselves by discovering the shortcomings of others, but what they use this way to express is their incompetence." "The smarter and kinder a person is, the more virtues he sees in others. The stupider and more vicious a person is, the more shortcomings he sees in others." If you can give others steps, you will also have steps, and you can give others Face, the more face you have. Covering up ugliness is a virtue, and doing good will lead to good.
Be like the sun. Colorless is pure, as long as the heart is clear, everything in the world is easy. Tasteless is bland, as long as the mind is clear, everything is empty. If you have no desires, you will be strong. As long as your heart is relaxed, nothing will matter. Give a smile and it will make the world a better place for you. Give silence, it will give you thinking and unlimited power. Just like a glass of water, a quiet, clear and magnanimous life.
Many of the troubles in life actually come from yourself. Just set your mind right and it will flow naturally. The swaying of the wind is just a natural scenery, no need to force it. Flying in the snow is just a natural poem, no need to think too much. The throbbing of the heart is just a natural emotion, and there is no need to care too much. Some people laugh at the scenery in the midst of the storm, and some people cry in their comfort zone and say they are unhappy. Everything comes from the heart, it just depends on how you face it!
The one who can control your life is always yourself. Birth determines the starting point, choice determines the direction, and mentality determines life. His heart is so big that he can tolerate everything in the world. Be humble and love the goodness of the world. Keep your mind calm and discuss the affairs of the world. Set your mind and respond to changes in the world. Great and difficult things depend on responsibility, adversity and good times depend on mind, willingness and perseverance depend on wisdom, success or failure depends on persistence!
If life is as smooth as two points and one line, it will be as dull and boring as boiled water. If there were no suffering in life, we would be proud; without setbacks, there would be no joy in success and no sense of accomplishment. Without vicissitudes of life, we would not have compassion. Therefore, don’t imagine that life is always perfect. The four seasons of life cannot only be spring. Everyone is destined to travel through ditches, taste bitterness and helplessness, and experience setbacks and disappointments in their lives.
Life requires four kinds of cultivation: First, be able to endure it. If you can endure a moment of anger, you can eliminate a hundred days of disaster. Being able to endure is not necessarily a sign of cowardice. The second is to see through. The greatest calmness is not to see through the world of mortals, but to still love life after seeing through life. Third, it is affordable. You must be responsible, don't shirk, don't run away, and face the bleak life head on. The fourth is to let go. Let go of your paranoia, let go of your memories, let go of your unwillingness, let go of your desires, be plain and simple.
In life, character comes first, then talent. When doing things, being sensible comes first, followed by diligence. Ordinariness is the main line of life, and excitement is the embellishment of life. We cannot avoid the ordinary reality, let alone indulge in fantasies about the future. Most of the time it's not bad luck, it's because you don't work hard enough. The more positive and optimistic you are and the more courageous you are, the more good luck will come. Only those who have the courage to bow their heads and have a clear understanding of themselves can be proud of the ups and downs of life.
Remember those who held an umbrella for you in the heavy rain, those who helped you shield yourself from foreign objects, those who hugged you tightly in the dark, those who made you laugh, those who chatted with you all night, those who took the car to visit you, those who stayed with you People who have cried, people who stayed with you in the hospital, people who always think of you, people who take you around, people who say they miss you. It is these people who make up every bit of warmth in your life. It is these warmth that keep you away from the haze. It is these warmth that make you a kind person.
Life is like a journey, with hardships and scenery along the way. What you see is your realm of life. If you always see people who are better than you, it means you are on the way up. If you always see people similar to yourself, it means you are just messing around. Always seeing people who are inferior to you means you are going downhill. Instead of complaining about the world, it is better to change yourself. Taking care of your own heart and doing your own thing is better than anything else.
If you care about yourself, you must underestimate the honor and disgrace of life. Whether it is honor or humiliation, we must take it calmly and face it with a peaceful mind. Don't be arrogant and extravagant when you are proud, don't lose your ambition when you are disgraced, don't drift when you gain, and don't wither when you lose.Remember, no one is always lucky and no one is always unlucky. When you are honored, please laugh it off, and when you are humiliated, please laugh it off. As the ancients said: Don't be surprised by honor or disgrace, just watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; you have no intention of leaving or leaving, just follow the clouds rolling and relaxing in the sky.
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