This is the 837th original article of Dongxia Thinking Whisk Record, with a number of words of 1010, and it takes about 2 minutes to read
I am Chen Dongxia, I have been writing for 28 years and painting for 4 years
40 years before the age of 40, I was ignorant and confused; after the age of 40, I change my thinking and find the true meaning of life
determined to accompany you to find a lighthouse, enhance your thinking, expand your horizons, and open a different life.
The question of "What kind of life do you want" is not emptied at all. As long as you understand it, you can endure all the hardships for it, and you are truly right to yourself...
When I woke up in the morning, I saw this sentence and hit my heart.
Looking back on last night, I fell asleep at least 10 o'clock in the first time and had a very beautiful dream. Although I had forgotten half of it when I woke up, the beautiful feeling was still rippling in my heart.
Open your eyes, everything is as usual, and a thought flashed in your heart, where is the depression of yesterday? Why? It seems to disappear.
The first day I was in a bad mood, so I went to get close to nature, and went to the botanical garden to sit and bathe in the sun.
wants to talk to someone, but it doesn’t feel suitable, so I don’t want to “contagious” them with negative energy.
For a moment, my heart was desolate and too failed. I didn’t even have the object of complaining without any scruples.
again, I only brought my phone, and I couldn’t last a day, so I might as well turn off the computer and save some power.
Half-dream and half-awake, I heard two birds in the treetops on the high place, talking happily: chirping, chirping...
I thought to myself, are the birds in the sky, are they happy? Does it know me on the ground?
heard the sound of sweeping the floor again from a distance. It turned out to be a cleaner in the botanical garden, so I started chatting with her.
She seems to want to talk to someone too.
She swept the leaves and I followed.
She said that when her son was 13 years old, her husband left.
She raised her two children alone and did a lot of work, including a leather shoe factory, a school-run factory, a food factory, a sanitation center, and her family still had a few acres of land. When she was busy, she was still in the field at 11 o'clock in the evening.
It was hard at that time and I had no money. Later, the house was demolished and there was local labor protection. It was more than 900 yuan a month, and my life gradually got better, but my son got married and posted a lot.
Now I want to save some money, and I have been doing cleaning after retirement.
is just old and has a pain all over. The doctor said he would press on his nerves and sweep the floor for occupational diseases, so he was going to stop doing it at the end of the month, but in fact, I would rather go out to work...
live with my son, and my wife always has something to say.
I asked, are there many people here every day? There is no
, it is rare for anyone to talk about.
Yes, otherwise who would like to talk about his family matters and say that to a stranger, a bamboo tube pouring beans.
looked at her face full of vicissitudes, thinking that she had worked hard all her life, and she was still afraid that her wife would dislike her. She had nowhere to say how much suffering she had.
Compared with her, why am I worried about now?
Some people say that healthy, free and sunny days are happy. I have all these three things right now, and my brain tells me that I should be happy.
, I can’t be happy, why, too much insecurity, too many unsatisfactions, and troubles.
Some people also say that true happiness is not how much money it has, but that someone can truly stand from your perspective and think about you.
So, is that person I am missing?
Unsolved questions
One morning exercise room, talking about your vision for the future and your ideal life, but in the end, it becomes a discussion of retirement life, travel, and fun...
The final agreement reached is that the meaning of life lies in being needed, how much value you can bring to others, and how many people you can serve.
I think, am I unhappy because I can’t find the value?
What value can I bring to others?
Back to the beginning, what kind of life you really want depends on the two words "value". Only when you have value can you strive for and have what kind of life.
Back to reality, how do you make your current life more comfortable and more appropriate?
My temporary answer is that life vision and ideal life must ultimately make yourself "value" and at the same time achieve unity with your ideals.
Welcome to write down your answer.
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