text/Hua Yaoguan
There are two types of people in society. One is blindly following others and has no subjective consciousness of their own; the other is that they have unique insights into everything, and their ideological realm is far beyond that of ordinary people.
We all want to be the latter, but most people actually do the former. How to distinguish between these two types of people is actually very simple, it depends on whether they can control their emotions.
There are two things in the world that can cause emotional out of control, one is money and the other is interpersonal relationships.
Money can make people's ambitions expand and make people's eyes turn red; interpersonal relationships can make people's mental torture and put others and themselves in dangerous areas.
So, if a person can calm down in these two things, it is really not easy.
In this world where money is about everything, money is no longer as simple as material things.
It is what the human heart wants, the source of sin, and the soil for the growth of greed.
Money can allow you to enjoy life, and it can get rid of most of your worries. It can even make you stand tall.
But there is a saying that goes: "The more you get, the more you lose."
There is a hidden law of conservation in the world. What you want to get must be paid the corresponding price.
Some people can only earn meager money in their whole life, so that their desire for money is getting stronger and stronger.
This is not difficult to understand, because after suffering the hardships of life, I naturally don’t want to suffer all the time.
It is not that easy to make money, so some people cannot control themselves and even make moral actions for the sake of their interests.
And truly amazing people have a good control over money. They are the masters of money, not the tempted servants.
For money, they only pursue food and clothing, and they will not think about living a life of luxury.
Because they know that if you have too much of this kind of life, you will be confused by your eyes and heart.
They are people who have truly seen through money. They do not want to lose themselves because of money, nor do they want to lose the current ease and happiness because of money.
Most of the disasters in life arise from money, and they will naturally eliminate this source of sin.
Their attitude towards money just shows their noble qualities.
Yang Jiang said: "Only those who are in humble have the most opportunity to see the truth of the world and human nature."
A truly amazing person is willing to help others when he is poor.
As the saying goes, "It is precisely because I have been wet from the rain that I want to hold an umbrella for others."
There was once a man named Hu Lei. He was a disabled person and has been living by picking up scatters, but his donations in 13 years exceeded one million.
Some people are like this. They are obviously in difficult life, but they still can’t stand the sufferings of the world.
They did not complain about the injustice of the world, but instead repayed their grievances with kindness and did good deeds by good people.
Their lives are summarized in two words: "Stand together" and "Stay at peace with poverty and enjoy the way."
In fact, a luxurious life may not be as comfortable as a simple life. People’s wealth is often destined from the beginning, but no matter what environment you are in, you should take money calmly.
If money is the root of all problems, then when you look at money calmly, your interpersonal relationships will be smooth.
People need to pay attention to many things when getting along with people, so people often say that you should keep a distance from getting along with people.
Once the distance between people is too close, conflicts will follow.
. A truly amazing person will keep himself calm when he gets along with others and look at the things between them with a rational mind.
They will not covet each other's interests, will not spy on each other's private affairs, and will not do thankless things.
So, when others get along with them, they will feel that you have a good relationship, but you still feel a little strange.
But often, such a relationship is the most comfortable, because the distance is right and calmness is the first priority.
There is no standard answer to what life is and what people pursue.
Everyone has their own choices and life. We are ordinary people and cannot be as focused as they do.
But we can be ourselves and learn from them to try to change our thoughts and behaviors.
If you see the value of money clearly, other things in life will increase value. You can find a different life and a different world. This world is no longer led by money, and your life will be more colorful.
If you keep calmer in interpersonal relationships, you will have fewer worries and your relationship with others will be more stable.
So, don’t underestimate those who can keep calm in money and interpersonal relationships, they are really not simple people.
