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Nowadays, many people live in masks. You can't see his true face clearly, and you don't understand his true nature, because what you see is only what he is willing to let you see. These may not be true, but may be deliberately disguised.
For example, some people are obviously not rich, but they always pretend to be rich. If you don’t know how to distinguish, you will easily be deceived.
In fact, whether a person is really rich can be seen at a glance. You only need to pay attention to the following three characteristics to judge the general problem.
1: A strong sense of vanity, likes to brag and show off
There is a saying: The richer a person is, the more simple his clothes are. Why does this happen to
? Shouldn’t rich people wear famous brands, watches, or drive luxury cars? Actually, it’s not. This is just the public’s wrong perception of rich people.
Real rich people are often low-key and humble. They will not make people see that they are very rich, because they don’t need to pretend, and they are also afraid of showing off their wealth and bringing trouble to themselves. People like
are often more visionary and live more sober and transparent.
is actually those who don’t have much money and like to pretend to be rich. They like to brag and show off. The monthly salary is 5,000 and the monthly salary is 5,000, and the monthly salary is 20,000, and the savings are 20,000, and people want to think that there are 2 million.
But the more they do this, the more they expose their inner poverty and disconfidence, because rich people don’t know how to pretend, and those who like to pretend are often not rich people.
2: There is no correct and rational consumption concept, and likes to pretend to be like
People who have no money pretend to be rich, but after all, they do not have a correct and rational consumption concept. They take face too seriously and care too much about what others will think of him, so many times, they always live a very hypocritical life.
For example, when eating with friends, I still rush to pay for the bill even though I didn’t have money, just to make people feel that I am a generous person. Is this necessary?
For example, when dressing, when you see others wearing famous brands, you are very envious and afraid of being looked down upon by others, so you don’t hesitate to swipe your credit card or find a way to borrow money to buy it...
In order to satisfy your temporary vanity, letting yourself bear the debts you didn’t need to bear, which is actually a kind of stupidity, because the more you pretend, the more you are looking down on others.
Poverty is not shameful, thinking that poverty is shameful is really shameful.
3: Relatively restrained in dealing with people, submissive and unconfident
Real rich people often live with confidence. No matter what kind of people they interact with or in what occasion they are in, they will not make themselves look petty because of money.
On the contrary, they are always generous and give people a feeling of confidence. They have never panic when they have seen the world.
This is determined by the growth environment, which shows that he has not lacked money or love since he was a child, so he does not have the feeling of being submissive. He is not reserved, not twisted, and is decisive and straightforward in his work. It is just because someone provides him with the best of his ability, and he has the ability to retreat and confidence.
And those who are more reserved in dealing with people and always live cautiously often just the opposite.
He may have lived in a not-so-rich family since he was a child, and he did not have anything else, and even the most basic problem of food and clothing was difficult to solve.
This will lead to his ease of inferiority in front of others, not daring to express himself or showing himself. Therefore, when interacting with others, he will escape wherever he needs money.
You may think he is stingy and always stingy. In fact, it is not, he is just poor.
Why do some people pretend to be rich even though they have no money? But it is because he believes from the bottom of his heart that having no money is a shameful and shameless thing, but in fact, you really think too much.
Face is earned by yourself through your own efforts, not pretending. If you have no money and pretending to be rich, it will only give people the feeling that you are inferior and hypocritical.
is better than being open and admitting it openly, which will make it easier to win the respect of others. After all, in thirty years, Hebei and Hebei in thirty years, no one knows when you will make a comeback.
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