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As the saying goes, " is destined to meet , but he will not meet each other without fate."
People who are truly destined to meet each other, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they will meet and embrace each other. And people who are not destined to live next door will not meet. If you don’t have fate, then you and I are all passers-by. What is the so-called fate?
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is actually the magnetic field of human beings. Your magnetic field is similar to this person, but the three views of the two sides are not much different. You can basically talk about them together, and there will be no conflicts or contradictions.
On the contrary, if you have a conflict with the magnetic field of this person, then when you see him, you will feel a sense of "disgust". All the "defying each other" in is not accidental, but inevitable destined by fate.
What we often call "love at first sight" is the best result of the fusion of magnetic fields. We cannot decide who we meet, who we fall in love with, and who we will accompany us for our whole life. Everything depends on fate and magnetic field.
Some people will say that this magnetic field can really change? It's hard to change. Some people's magnetic field is fixed as soon as they are born. If you want to change it, you will completely change your personality and heart. Of course, this is something that ordinary people cannot do.
After all, all meetings and encounters are destined.
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There is such a story.
More than ten years ago, the trains were shut down due to a snow disaster. A boy who bought the tickets was requested to refund the ticket in the station hall, and was still thinking about where to stay tonight. When he was applying for a refund of the ticket, he met a girl who, like him, was a working person who came to work in this city. Of course, the two of them met once and hurriedly left.
left the hall, and the boy braved the heavy snow to look for hotels everywhere. Who knows that even the hotels in the suburbs are full. By chance, he met the girl again, right at the door of a hotel.
The boss told them that there was only one double room left. The two of them lived together without thinking too much.
During those days of getting along, the boy found that the girl was a fellow villager and had learned similar things, and there were topics to talk about. Therefore, the two fell in love.
After experiencing this, they got married a year later. The two of them returned to their hometown to live, which was safe and happy.
The encounter between people is so destined to be. I met you when I was in trouble, and you also met me in the process of searching, and then you and I will know each other.
If there is no fate, then after the first meeting, we will never meet again. Later, they were able to meet again, so they were destined to be together. This seems to be a personal choice, but in fact it is the "match" of fate.
You should know that the biggest mezzanine in this world is actually fate and destiny.
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Who will you meet and what you encounter, that is destined to be.
Buddha said that everyone has already arranged what they see and encounter, and everything is fate. Dependence comes and disappears, causes gathering and dispersing, everything is God's will.
From the moment we were born, the trajectory of fate has been engraved in our lives, but we have not discovered it.
To put it more realistically, The family we reincarnate in and what kind of parents we meet depends on fate.
When we were young, who would we become playmates and who would we become childhood sweethearts? This is the "fate" of our youth . When we were studying, who did we become classmates and what teachers we met? This is the "fate" of studying in .
Even if we leave society, work in which unit we go to, and what type of colleagues and leaders we meet, we don’t know in advance, but we will eventually meet it.
Meeting rich parents, kind colleagues and leaders like men, is a good luck. When meeting bad parents, there are many villains around you, which is also the arrangement of fate.
If you have good fate, you will definitely have bad fate. This is an inevitable part of our life journey. Facing fate, we cannot stay out of it, so we can only accept it calmly.
Fate comes, we cherish the present, fate goes, we open our hands and give them freedom. We must firmly believe that God’s fate arrangements make sense.
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The people you meet come to "send" you.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that From the perspective of " Yijing ", you don't know whether they are good or not at the moment when you encounter all the people and things you encounter. After a few years, ten years later, when you look back, you will find that everything is a good thing and a good person.
If you unfortunately meet a villain, you will complain about them and think that they have affected your life, but what you didn’t expect is that the appearance of a villain will make you realize the real human heart and taste the pain in the world.
has never suffered any bitterness, so you don’t know what sweetness is. If you have never seen darkness, then you don’t know what light is. Therefore, although the appearance of a villain is a kind of evil fate, it may not be a good fate in life.
Or, you are lucky to meet The nobles of life , just like Zhou Wenwang met Jiang Ziya , Liu Bang met Han Xin , Liu Bei met Zhuge Liang , then both of them will achieve each other and achieve great things.
like this sentence very much. All encounters in are like spring flowers encountering light rain, summer frogs encountering lotus pods , autumn light meets cool breeze, winter snow meets wine, full of romance, full of beauty, and full of worth in the world.
people, cherish the people in front of you and enjoy this time together. Fate, the day when it appears, there will definitely be the day when it disappears. Don't wait until you lose it before regretting it.
The world has no future, only fleeting. This is the case, this is the case of people, and this is the case of sentient beings.
text/Shushan Youlu
