2. True exquisiteness is not how beautiful, dignified and luxurious it looks, nor how you look like you are wearing beautiful nail polish and brand-name bags and shopping as you like.
has certain heights and requirements for every corner of life, and is the best to enjoy within your own ability. More mediocre and more luxurious and free.
3. When a woman reaches a certain age, all her experiences will leave traces on her face. Only those kindness reflected from her heart and the secular vision can be integrated into her temperament and become a cloak that will never be outdated.
4. As a woman, don’t always look forward to enjoying the so-called glory and wealth all day long. Just spend enough money; only good health can be healthy.
The true comfort from the heart is not material abundance and eternal youth, but emotional pleasure, spiritual satisfaction, behavioral freedom and spiritual relaxation.
The truly happy people are the kind of people who know how to be content, the kind of people who don’t forget to enjoy the scenery even when walking on detours.
5. Don’t care too much about the worries in life. If you have the ability, solve it, and if you don’t have the ability, let it go.
You should know that everyone has troublesome things, and life is always mixed. Only by taking gains and losses indifferently and knowing how to make choices can we meet beauty and keep happiness.
6. Filter out unnecessary things. No matter what age a woman reaches, she must learn to filter: filter your thoughts, filter your vision, filter your circle of friends, and even filter your own shortcomings.
In short, you must present yourself in the crowd very cleanly and comfortably. This will be more worthy of appreciation and love than your appearance.
7. Dress appropriately, put on exquisite makeup, write fresh words, and make reliable friends. This is what a middle-aged woman should look like.
In addition, we must strive to bring out something every day to bless our love for life, such as running, reading, and asking for a few confidants to go out for a walk. If this continues, even at the door of your house, you will find poetry and distant places.
8. Don’t worry about trivial matters. If you are worried all day long, it will be easy to look old. Let everything go naturally, buy it if you like it, and make money if you don’t have money.
In short, you must make yourself live in a standard, progress and retreat, style, quality and quantity.
On the contrary, if you are worried all day long and complaining, it will probably be difficult to be happy even if you go far away. In the end, there is nothing more than a lot of mediocrity left.
9. Have your own free time. No matter how heavy the burden is on or how busy the work you are at every day, be kind to yourself, give yourself some free time and enjoy a happy enjoyment.
People who like to read books will read books, and people who like to listen to music will listen to music. In short, what you like to do, then you do it.
10. Don’t take other people’s criticism too seriously. In the book "Happiness Advice for Women by Carnegie to Hidem4", there is a passage: "Every lady has been criticized by others in her life, whether this criticism is good or malicious. Most women often cannot accept it when facing criticism. They are often angry, annoyed, worried or irritable by these criticisms."
Believe that no one is perfect. If it is malicious, you can just laugh it off and make no response; if it is a good criticism, then accept it calmly and change it if there is.
Finally, I hope all middle-aged women will be the woman who slowly blooms like flowers in time:
Know the world, but is not sophisticated; have pride, but understand compassion better. Although I have experienced the sharpness of life again and again, I still understand how to stay optimistic.
