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When interacting with people, how will you deal with it generally if you are plotted against it?
Real smart people often do not turn against each other immediately, or blindly fight back to relieve the temporary energy. They can only do the following three things silently, which is really visionary and patterned.
However, some people just happen to be the opposite, so they easily fall into the trap, making their situation more and more difficult.
1: Stay calm and analyze the pros and cons
was calculated. This is a fact that has happened and cannot be changed. In this case, the first step we need to do is to stay calm and then analyze the pros and cons.
first recover what can be recovered and accept what can be recovered to minimize the impact.
However, some people do not realize this. They are always very irritable and anxious, and they want to find out the person who plots on them as soon as possible, and then give him a blow and revenge.
, is this useful? You are relieved, but the impact of this matter is still there, even greater.
People who have a real pattern will not be fooled by the other party, will not make things worse and bigger, and will only remain calm and analyze the problem and then make a long-term plan.
2: Sleeping on firewood and tasting gall, waiting for the opportunity to fight back
Sometimes, enduring a moment of energy is not a coward, but a kind of vision. Only when you know how to control your temper and manage your emotions can you not fall into other people's plans because of impulse.
In the TV series " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", Duanfei is a particularly tolerant person.
She hated Shilan for 3 years, but she has been with her side for many years and let her bully her. She didn't accept her fate, she was just waiting for an opportunity, and this opportunity was later Zhen Huan .
Zhen Huan is deeply favored by the emperor and is scheming. It is effortless to defeat Nian Shilan with the help of Zhen Huan. Moreover, she can escape unstoppably and continue to protect herself.
This is the real smart person.
People who are not mature enough and strong enough are easily impulsive when encountering things. You think that falling out with the other person in person is a very relieved behavior, but in fact this is your short-sightedness.
A truly visionary person will not rush to turn against him when he is plotted against him. Instead, he will be like the other party, first become , and then make a long-term plan.
If you don’t get angry, you won’t be obedient to his words. Only by staying calm can you hit the other party hard, so don’t let yourself lose to emotions.
3: Accumulate strength and know how to leverage strength to fight, and then give the other party a fatal blow
Those villains who plot against you must have no good intentions. They can't stand you or can't accept your existence, it's just because they feel that you have posed a threat to him.
But this shows from the side that you are much better and much more powerful than him.
Since this is the case, don’t rush to take revenge or turn against each other. You can choose to accumulate strength silently and know how to use the strength to fight. This is not a scheming, but a way to treat the person.
For example, in the workplace, a colleague often wears you little shoes and secretly says bad things about you in front of your leader. It doesn’t matter. You can prove yourself with your strength, get promoted and raise your salary as soon as possible, and then become his leader, leaving him with nowhere to escape. Or borrow someone else's hand and give him a fatal blow, so that he can never turn over again.
Sometimes, in addition to strength, you can really win, and you also have wisdom.
Face to face you, which makes you look very low in EQ and you don’t lose much to the other party. Only by enduring your temper for a moment, waiting for the opportunity, and then fighting back can you completely protect your rights.
In this world, if there are noble people who treat you sincerely, there are villains who deliberately plot against you. This is normal. What we need to do is to cherish noble people and stay away from villains.
However, if a villain infringes on our rights, we don’t need to endure it. Finding the right way and method to hit the other party is the behavior of a smart person.
instead of just having a fuck, making each other ugly. This is immature and makes it seem very low emotional intelligence.
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