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Someone asked Socrates students Platonic :
"Your teacher's life situation is not very good, but why are you happy all day long?"
Platonic replied:
"What determines a person's mood is not the environment, but the mood."
What is your mood and what life is like.
If you want to be happy in life, you cannot do without a positive and sunny mentality.
Good mentality, good health
Zhou Guoping once said:
"The human body is dominated by the mind, and a good mentality is the best health preservation."
A student asked the teacher: " People are afraid of the severe cold and hot heat, how can we avoid this pain? "
teacher replied, "It's very simple, go to a place without cold and heat."
student asked the teacher again, "Where can you find such a place?"
teacher replied calmly, "Don't let go of the fire in your heart, it will be cool."
We cannot control the natural changes in the outside world, but we can grasp the spring, summer, autumn and winter in our hearts.
Traditional Chinese medicine believes that joy hurts the heart, anger hurts the liver, fear hurts the kidneys, worry hurts the lungs, and thoughts hurts the spleen.
Any of our emotional changes will directly affect our physical health.
If you let your emotions fluctuate unrestrainedly, the only thing that will damage your body will eventually be your own body.
Xunzi said: "Those who enjoy the easy life will always live long, and those who are worried will often die young."
Happy people often live long, while those who are worried often live short.
Life is like a journey, and past experiences are all scenery. There is no need to worry, nor do you have to bear too much sadness.
Life is a sea of water, crossing thousands of mountains and rivers. In the end, you will definitely find that the most beautiful scenery in life is the peace and joy in your heart.
Good mentality and good career
Japanese industrialist Inamori Kazuo , wrote this passage in the book " Way to Live HTML ":
"Fate can change with the change of our mentality. The only thing that can change our destiny is our hearts, and life is created by ourselves."
Why did he feel so emotional?
This is closely related to his early experience.
Kazuo Inamori, who just graduated from university, is in the midst of a recession in Japan.
Because he has no background and no way at home, he has never been able to find a job.
Because of this, Kazuo Inamori became a little decadent and even wanted to go astray.
Finally, he finally got into a company, but who would have thought that the company was facing bankruptcy and could not even pay the salary.
and Kazuo Inamori intervened at the same time. Several college students complained as soon as they met, and they discussed every day when they would resign. Soon they found a new job and resigned one after another, leaving only Kazuo Inamori alone.
Facing such a situation, Kazuo Inamori changed his mindset. He no longer had to worry about whether to leave or whether his salary was guaranteed. He just focused on working hard.
It is this change in mentality that has made Kazuo Inamori's work improve and his career has begun to enter a virtuous cycle.
He said that it is precisely because of his hard work at this stage that he laid the foundation for his future career success.
Everything starts from the heart. When the mindset changes, life will change accordingly.
As Kazuo Inamori said:
"Thoughts are brushes, life is canvas, people's thoughts are different, and the picture of life is also different."
has a good attitude, family happiness
in the beginning of "Anna Karenina" Leo Tolstoy wrote:
"Happy families are similar, and unfortunate families are different."
a happy family is always inseparable from the care and tolerance of family members, and a good mentality.
has a kind of love, called Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu .
In the book " Three Us ", it records such a thing:
On a ship abroad, Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu started arguing over the pronunciation of the French "bon".
Yang Jiang said that Qian Zhongshu's accent was home-like.
Qian Zhongshu was dissatisfied and said a lot of sad words. Yang Jiang also used hurtful words to fight back against Qian Zhongshu.
Later, they finally found a French lady who could speak English announcement.
Finally proved that Mr. Yang Jiang was right.
However, although Yang Jiang won, she felt very unhappy. Of course, Qian Zhongshu lost, he was even more unhappy.
Later they concluded that quarrels are boring and quarrels cannot change the pronunciation regulations.
So, they decided: "You might as well have objections in the future, and there is no need to ask for the same."
The happiness of marriage is inseparable from a good mentality. Rather than competing for right or wrong, it is better to talk about the pattern.
This is how life is. The more you care about, the less you get.
Your mentality determines the atmosphere of the family.
In life, what you live is the mentality. Only when your mentality is peaceful can your family be happy.
There is a saying:
Change in mentality, and the attitude changes;
Change in attitude, and the habits change;
Change in habits, and the personality changes;
Change in personality, and the life changes.
There is no saying in life whether life is good or not. If you believe that fate is in your own hands.
As a philosopher said:
"Your mentality is your real master."
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