There are really few communication between people nowadays. Sometimes communication is just a kind of coping, or a perfunctory one. The real communication between hearts will be sensed. If there are not many friends, just three or five is good. If there are not many friends, the love is not confused. The true heart is the most sincere.
I haven't told others my heart for a long time, and I haven't been moved by others for a long time. Looking at the person who posts on Moments every day when you look at the phone, which one is the person who has the same language as you. Sometimes not disturbing others is also a kind of happiness, and not being disturbed by others is also a kind of happiness. Everyone has their own circle of life and everyone has their own living space. We belong to that, only our hearts know it.
I care a lot about my current life state, because my current life state can be described in two words, that is quiet. My heart is no longer as noisy and impetuous as before. In addition to going to work every day, you can do something you like in your spare time. I will never be like before, just wanting to eat, drink and have fun.
Everyone has their own life habits, and everyone has their own life rules. When facing external temptations, we must learn to refuse. Sometimes it may be due to sympathy, fearing that rejection will make others unable to come to Taiwan, but for us, not participating in some useless drinking parties, the benefits outweigh the disadvantages. When people reach middle age, they should develop the habit of less alcohol and smoking. Health is the first priority for us. We dare not fall down at this age.
Friends who drink and eat can easily get together, but friends who are close friends are hard to find. True friends are not maintained by the wine party. Maybe I haven't seen each other for more than a year, but the relationship between friends is still there. Friends are not icing on the cake, but real timely help. You will know whether you are a real friend or not. In today's society, what is the most difficult thing is to borrow money. When you are in trouble, sometimes brothers and sisters dare not lend you money, let alone friends.
Always remember the people who have helped you, and always have a grateful heart. Your current state is not that others don’t want to disturb you, but that you are not yet disturbed by others. When you reach a certain level, many people will inevitably disturb you because you have the value of exploitation. In this society where interests are exchanged, feelings cannot be spent as money. When you have money, you will naturally have feelings, but only you know how much hypocrisy is mixed in this feeling.
people live so realistically, and I am very glad that there is such a rare quietness now. Put aside all worldly trivial matters and be determined to be yourself. Sometimes the words you write are like having a conversation with your inner self every day. Every day, I constantly cleanse my soul through words.
Although I feel very tired sometimes, I feel pain and happy. I like the life I am now. My phone and WeChat didn't ring much, and no one asked me to chat. I seemed to have entered a state of shutdown, only my heart was calling me, and I would take a small step every day, and over time, I would take a big step.
will no longer feel the feeling of gain and loss. It is really difficult to be yourself. But I don’t want to have the purposeless life I used to have. If a person lives like a walking corpse, what’s the point of life? I am very glad to have some enlightenment and some changes. True change is from the heart to the outside.
Don’t think about how others view your gaze, such a life is very tiring. We are not alive for others to see. We should be ourselves with our heart and believe in ourselves. We can dance as light as dust. Small is not necessarily useless, and small may be extremely powerful. Even if it is as light as dust, it can have the most beautiful flying posture. When people live in this world, don’t complain about themselves and don’t lament their own insignificance. Because a small window can shine in the sun; a small star can illuminate the night sky; a small flower can also be fragrant throughout the room. Use all your strength and you can shine brightly.
Happiness is something you strive for. If you feel dissatisfied with your current life, you must learn to change yourself. Only change is the only way out.Happiness or not comes entirely from our hearts. In the world, no matter rich or poor, he always wants to have fun, and is also a rich poor person. Although a person is materially poor, he is willing to give and help others, and is spiritually a poor rich person. Give up some unnecessary social interactions, give up some unnecessary people, and give up some illusory things in your heart, and happiness will naturally slowly come to us.
