People make a living in their lives, and no matter how brilliant they achieve, they cannot withstand the injuries they have suffered.
walks through mountains and crosses rivers. Those who praise you for envy you are seeing you walking a path that they cannot reach, but only you know that when you walk on the mountain, you are lonely and alone, facing the darkness alone; when you cross the river, others laugh at your stupidity, and the wind and waves overturn your silence.
People live to a certain level. The level mentioned here does not only refer to age, but to experience, understanding, to control, to the suffering and joy of possession.
With these accumulations, after reaching a certain level, you will find that what you have is always envied and recognized towards others, but toward one's own side is often ruined and broken and embarrassing:
Those fearlessness in life come at a price,
rush to survive will leave eternal scars.
Someone uses courage to challenge life and interprets the meaning of their existence with persistence.
is right? Yes, but this is right, just common sense, just common sense that must be done.
Ask those people who are hunched over the bottom line of survival, they never consider whether they need the courage to challenge life, because every step of theirs is a challenge, and they don’t need to interpret anything with persistence.
You ask them, what is the meaning of living?
They may laugh without saying a word, but this is often the answer to the question.
People who are confused about "What should I do to become an excellent person" or are entangled in "How to do not let myself be mediocre", but they are also lucky, because they are not numb enough and have not been crushed by this society to give up. You will find that those people with particularly clear life goals often do not consider these worries.
This is not because their lives are windless or rainy, nor because they despise all setbacks.
but because they are used to it, they will not think that such a life is worth mentioning.
This is not a superior quality, but this kind of thinking is a passive choice caused by fatigue and over-understanding after being scarred.
people have agreed that their efforts are not for themselves. They know that the heavy burden they bear is part of life. They will not resist and persist because they are still alive. Over time, they have done a lot of things, crossing mountains and ridges, crossing seas and rivers. They have walked a lot, and their steps are neither light nor heavy. They are used to the burden on their bodies. They are also used to this kind of life.
They do not like this kind of life, nor are they like the hypocritical smile under the smug sweat in short videos that deliberately beautify pain. They will not smile like this, but they will not cry. They are silent, accepting, and then walking,
stay away from the past and away from the present. As for the future, just do whatever you want:
at first sounds like this kind of life is very disappointing, without any passion, and without any meaning. In fact, this is true, but at the same time, there are indeed people living like this in
, and more and more people living like this.
We don’t need to wake up their souls, because their souls have become an unchangeable appearance.
The achievements they have obtained, the recognition they have obtained, and the results they have won are all the marks of their lives, which is not unique to them.
even their numbness, the same is true:
Sometimes, after walking for a long time, you will forget whether you are still wearing shoes. Maybe the shoes have been worn out long ago. Those barefoot people have deposited a lot of things on their feet. Those are traces of time and experience. Some traces are very deep. In the ravines, you can see the faces of those people who were once painful, the stubbornness of gritting teeth but still not stopping. These have passed, or have been tolerated, and have been completely accepted:
If people can't find a harbor in the wind and rain,
Then you are the harbor.
