There is a saying on the Internet: "The older a person is, the less affectionate."
The passion of the young man is like fire, and it will become "cold and indifferent" as time goes by. In my early years, my heart was like the rising sun, and it would gradually usher in the night as I experienced it.
The "attitude" of ordinary people towards feelings is like spring, summer, autumn and winter. has the warmth of spring, the enthusiasm of midsummer, the affection of autumn, and finally the ruthlessness of winter.
people live in a heartless way not because they want to live in this way, but because this is a inevitable experience for everyone. Since this is the case, we should not think it is not good to be "indifferent".
The so-called "existence is the truth." Since there are passionate people in this world, there must be people with indifference. Sometimes, when we are a loving person, we can live happier.
is too enthusiastic, not only burning others, but also burning yourself. If we cool down our emotions and calm down our emotions, we will live more rationally and become more mature.
After being fifty years old, you might as well be "ruthless" to these people. That is the beginning of hardship and blessings.
1. Be cruel and affectionate to the "white jealous wolf".
In this world, there is a kind of person who often likes to "bury bridges across the river", that is, the ungrateful wolf who has no gratitude at all.
There are actually not so many ungrateful wolves in the past. However, with the development of material life, the concept of money supremacy has gradually become popularized, and more and more ruthless and ungrateful wolves are ruthless.
They may be your friends, you may be your relatives, or you may be your siblings. Of course, if these ungrateful wolves have something to do with you, it will be difficult for you to get along with them.
In the workplace, some of your colleagues take advantage of you and put harm on you; in the family, your relatives morally kidnapped you, and asked for help, without any understanding of gratitude. What should you do with these people?
No matter how good you are to them, it is just in vain. Just like if you save a poisonous snake, there will be only one result, that is, if you are bitten by the poisonous snake, the end will be more miserable.
When interacting with people, you must avoid these ungrateful wolves. Even if you have the ability, don't help these people.
2. Be cruel and affectionate towards "hypocrites".
people have reached a certain age and hate the most, that is, the hypocrite who is extremely hypocritical.
Wearing a mask makes our hearts feel tired and don’t want to continue. So, we return to simple and real life and live a small life without any struggle.
The more we are willing to be ordinary, the more we hate the "hypocrite". Because we know that this simple life is complicated by these hypocrites.
The world of humans turns out to be very simple, there is no fight. Since human desires gradually expand and the process of competing for resources has become more and more intense, the "hypocritical" human nature has been inspired by .
There are only two choices when facing hypocrites. either be affectionate to them and stay away from them, or be ruthless against them and don’t let them go. Ordinary people actually only need to "stay away in time".
The rest of your life will be clean and simple. For the so-called hypocrites, don’t have any contact with them.
3. Be cruel and unkind to "people who take advantage". There is such a joke on the Internet.
A middle-aged man posted a message on WeChat Moments and wrote: "I have worked hard for half my life and finally got a net worth of hundreds of millions."
Two days later, several distant relatives came to visit me.He was also confused and thought to himself, I am not familiar with you, why do you come to visit me?
talked to these relatives a few words, and the middle-aged man found that these relatives were here to "seek help". Some people want to borrow money from him, some people want to get his wool, and some people want to get benefits by holding on to him.
After experiencing this, he rarely interacts with relatives, and even doesn't post flaunt his friends circle. He said this, You are not here when I was suffering, and you will come when I get rich. Why is it so ironic?
people, this is how you are. They will not help you because you are weak and pitiful, but will only please you because you are rich and powerful, and take advantage of you. Don’t take such people to heart, they are not worthy.
4. Be cruel and affectionate towards "people who use you".
There is a common saying among the people: "If you have something to do, you will be happy in the summer."
When they have something to do, they will come to you to use you. When they are fine, they gradually move away from you and pretend to not know you.
To put it bluntly, when encountering difficulties, you and I are all real brothers. And when you and I are strangers when you are not in trouble.
People like this are particularly common in the world. They will not repay you with sincerity just because you treat them sincerely, nor will they repay you with a drop of water just because you help them.
sucker, we will do it once, and don’t do it next time. When a person lives for a lifetime, he should not become a use of anyone, but should live for himself and not be squeezed out by others at will.
people are fifty years old. The more they live, the less affectionate they become, the more cruel they live, and the less emotional they live. It is because we have seen through the vicissitudes of the world and know what is human heart, what is human nature, and what is ugly face.
everything, that's it.
text/Shushan Youlu
