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As a symbol of purchasing power, money has become the object of pursuit for everyone.
In modern society, it is absolutely impossible to have no financial resources. Some people may pursue the spiritual world, but the reality is that food and clothing depends on money. If you want to be spiritually rich, you also need money as a basic support.
But this world is also full of various emotions. True feelings cannot be bought with money, and many times, favors are much more important than money.
In life, one not only requires money, but also various connections. It can be said that the wider the connection, the more opportunities and resources there will be. This is also a kind of wealth.
Of course, money does not have nothing to do with feelings. The proper effort of money will leave a good impression on others.
After all, people in the world have more or less "maintaining wealth". Being able to donate generously will make friends feel that you are sincere, generous and easy to get along with, and to a certain extent it will help accumulate connections.
Everyone hopes that they can become a rich person, and even often talks about "There are so many rich people in the world, so what if I have one more?"
These people only see the "result" of others, but never see the "cause". In the years you have never seen, those rich people have also made efforts that you cannot imagine.
Note: Everything that fate gives you has long been secretly bidding for the price.
can only be obtained after giving. If you have never tried hard, how can you become a truly rich person?
Observation found that there are always some people with low economic benefits who misinterpret this concept, put their economic strength behind them in the face of vanity, just to make their friends happy, and forget whether their efforts can bring enough rewards.
Gu Long wrote in "Chu Liuxiang": What does it matter if a man is a real man, as long as you are poor, as long as you are so poor that you are hard.
Really, it is not scary for people to be poor. As long as you are hard and willing to break through, you will be a little bit sooner or later.
But if a person is poor and still pretends to be rich without money, he will never make a fortune in his life.
Really, the less rich a person is, the more generous he is.
"Poor" comes from not having a strong pursuit of money
. No matter who is rich and powerful, just for people of the same level, people standing on the same starting line will always have a gap between the rich and the poor.
This comes from different concepts. Some people think that it’s good to have enough money, and they stop earning money that meets living expenses, and other times are spent on rest and entertainment.
And some people have a strong desire for money Han Xin points - the more they have, they have a strong desire for money.
The reason why people love money is that it can bring about abundance of material conditions. People who have a strong desire for money are happy because they have money, because money can bring about happiness in life. Another group of people builds the happiness of life on self-entertainment, and after earning enough money, they think about going to entertain themselves.
People who do not have a strong pursuit of money are destined to be unable to be rich and cannot see the satisfaction and happiness of a wealthy life. Such a lifestyle is actually understandable.
But some people do not have a strong pursuit of money and complain that they have no money, which is the contradiction between thoughts and actions.
yearns for the happiness of rich people, but refuses to work hard. This contradictory state will make people live a unhappy and uneasy life.
always "smacking the swollen face and pretending to be fat"
Poor and generous people are often generous out of face, not really generous, and everything is just to get others to praise themselves for their words "righteousness".
This kind of spiritual sense of gain always makes those who are not very wealthy pursue it. For example, there is no need to pay for some dinner parties by themselves and have to take it all by themselves. For example, if a friend asks him to borrow money, he must try his best to satisfy even if he borrows money, without considering his own situation at all.
This behavior of "swelling and filling a fat man with a swollen face" comes from people's vanity, and the other is from the inferiority complex of not being rich.
They do not want others to know that their family conditions are not good, so they have to pretend to be rich even if they have no money to cover up their inner disconfidence and their true situation.
People who like poor people often cannot be down-to-earth. They have a kind of thinking that if they can live up to their face, they will be fine.
They don’t have much desire to make money. They can live at home without losing face. That is the best situation, and they won’t think about how to change the status quo.
This is what people often say that you have to live a life of face and would rather live a bad life than pursue vanity.
Distorted consumption concept
Poor people often have another disadvantage, that is, the consumption concept is distorted.
When the economy is not rich, the limited financial resources should be allocated reasonably. In layman's terms, it is to spend money where it should be spent.
However, poor people seem to have no idea of whether to spend or not. They only think that enough or not. They spend thousands of meals between friends, and when they finally get to their homes, there is nothing.
As the pillar of a family, men cannot be more generous. The facts prove that those who are poor are men. They can be extremely generous in front of their friends, but they are harsh and harsh to their families. If they can, they will not spend money. They have no correct consumption concepts and no sense of responsibility.
The conventional consumption concept should be to give priority to meeting internal needs, that is, in a family, the expenses of family members should be met first, rather than using money to satisfy outsiders.
people not only need to be able to make money, but also need to spend money. They must have a clear understanding of their own property, make reasonable plans, and integrate their short-term income. The so-called good steel is used on the edge, and spending money is the same.
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After all, poverty and wealth are relative, and they are not static. Poverty is not terrible. Only by being willing to be poor and not being enterprising really makes a person poor.
People can be poor in wealth but not poor in ambition. They keep themselves rich in spirit, keep their actions down-to-earth, and gradually get out of the current situation of poverty.
Good face is everyone's instinct, and the praise and envy of others are often fascinating.
However, as the saying goes, "Good words are not eaten as food", the only thing that can change your life is your own down-to-earth efforts, not others' praise.
In life, we should strive to create a happy life, rather than pursue fame and fortune.
